5 WAYS TO AVOID WASTING A LADY'S TIME

1) BE SURE BEFORE YOU ASK HER OUT 

It's very terrible to see a Brother in a Relationship, and when you ask him what he wants from the Lady and the Relationship, he can't give you a straight answer..

Which one is "I'm still thinking about it"

Thinking about it, on top 2 years old Relationship? 

Be sure about her Ethnicity/Religion and how your family will welcome that first..

Be sure about your Genotype compatibility first. 

Watch, Look at everything First, Physical, Social, Financial, Spiritual and otherwise. 

Pray (Get your conviction)

Before you now ask a lady out, otherwise, you may end up wasting her time.. 

2) BE HONEST. (DON'T GIVE HER FALSE HOPE)  

I counseled a lady some months back, uncle wasted her 2 years and was apologizing, will apology bring back her 2 years?

 His Mother never liked the lady, but he kept assuring her that he could do something, that he would marry her, so she waited, in the end, he succumbed to his Mother and the lady was left to bite the dust. 

Don't make Promises you can't keep.

3) LEAVE HER BODY OUT OF IT. 

Yes Sir, don't go there at all.

Sex would complicate issues. Without sex, your brain and heart will process what they want from her faster and do so unbiasely. 

4) AVOID UNREALISTIC GOALS

I must buy a Car First

I must build a house first.

"I must do this, I must do that... " and she will enter Menopause, you will now be saying she's now too old for you, you want someone younger to marry. Fear God oh. 

5) AVOID LONG COURTSHIP

Don't put a ring on a lady's finger when you are not ready to Marry her in a few months time, maximum a Year. Make God no vex for you.

Don't make any Lady Lord of the Rings. If you aren't ready, clear road for those that are ready. 

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(c) Musa Gift

WHY KISSING IS IMPORTANT IN MARRIAGE

1. It reminds your spouse he/she is your lover, not just a parent to the children you have

2. Kissing when you wake up and when you sleep make you both start and end the day right

3. Kissing communicates to your spouse that there is still warmth in the marriage. When a couple is drifting apart, one of the first things to suffer is kissing

4. Kissing is part of making out. Yes, married couples should also make out. Making out is the grabbing of butt, fondling of breasts, rubbing of the tip of the penis, passionately hugging, touching up even when fully clothed; as you kiss deeply - without necessarily making love

5. Kissing welcomes you to each other when you meet each other at home or outside after some hours of being a part

6. Kissing says "I love you"

7. Kissing promotes emotional intimacy. Conversations become more heartfelt when a couple embraces kissing. You bond better

8. Kissing promotes spiritual intimacy. When a couple kisses after praying to say "Amen", they value praying together more

9. Kissing releases the tension and a couple gets to have difficult conversations in a relaxed atmosphere. Imagine talking heavy stuff with random kisses

10. Kissing makes your spouse feel wanted and desired

11. Kissing heightens sexual intimacy as foreplay

12. Kissing is an activity you do exclusively that makes you both feel special

Sometimes all your spouse wants is for you to shut up and kiss him/her

© Dayan Masinde

FALSE PROPHETS

Matthew 7:15 "Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves."   

Not everyone who calls on God is a Child of God. 

Never be in a hurry to trust someone because they carry a religious ambience around them

Wearing Suit is not Holiness 

Long Skirt is not Righteousness 

There are decently dressed witches. 

Not everyone you meet in church is a Christian, the church is like a Hospital, not everyone there is a Doctor, some are psychiatric patients 

Don't fall for Gifts

He can Prophesy, a person can prophesy and still have a wicked heart. 

They can speak in tongues in prayer meetings and be neck deep in fornication. . 

Don't fall for charisma alone. 

Just because he is a Youth leader in church, She is coordinating the Sisters fellowship, these doesn't count for righteousness 

Don't fall for social media razzmatazz.

Some of the Social media pastors and advocates of sexual Purity and Sister's on fire are something else in their closets, 

Get to know the person well enough before you get serious with them. 

FRIENDSHIP FIRST 

Check out their CHARACTER not CONTAINER 

Check out their FRUITS not GIFTS 

Check out their ACTIONS not their WORDS  

Watch and Pray.

Do not ignore Red flags because of a Person's flashy appearance and religious appeal.

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Matthew 24:11 "And many false prophets shall rise, and shall deceive many."

May You not be deceived into a Relationship that will lead to regrets.

(c) Musa Gift

THE FIFTEEN RULES OF MARRIAGE

1. Before you see the wrong in your spouse, see also your wrong. It makes you fair and balanced 

2. Before you correct your spouse, appreciate your spouse. It makes your correction better received 

3. Before you accuse your spouse of something, have concrete proof. Too many people are accusing their spouse falsely based on feelings, suspicion and insecurities. If you have questions, ask without forming conclusions 

4. Before you claim your spouse is distant, check if you have pushed him/her away

5. Before you claim your spouse is secretive, ask yourself if you are easy to talk to - calm, non-judgmental and empathetic

6. Don't protect a friend at the cost of hurting your spouse. It shows your spouse he/she has value. It is very easy to take your spouse for granted

7. Don't let how you treat your spouse be determined by how your spouse treats you. This only makes you hold back the best of your love and leads to tit for tat. Marriage is built by husband and wife both choosing to be the bigger person 

8. Don't let a day go by without asking your spouse "How are you?" Or checking up on your spouse. It oils the marriage

9. Don't take a back seat and relax in marriage, your marriage will whither without effort. It takes being intentional to keep a marriage healthy and strong

10. Don't treat your spouse based on how your in-laws treat you. Your in-laws might not like you, but your spouse loves you

11. Do to your spouse what you want your spouse to do to you

12. Do love your spouse the way your spouse wants to be loved, not the way you think your spouse ought to be loved

13. Do the things you promised you would do. It makes your word more trusted and moves the marriage further

14. Do use your money, your phone, your success, your strengths to love on your spouse; not to hurt your spouse

15. Do make time for your marriage. Your old age as a couple will be shaped by how you invested time in your marriage over the years

©️ Akello

TRUE SECRETS ABOUT MEN!!!

1. In a relationship, the man needs attention, love, and respect. Even if he have an outside relationship, these things can draw his mind fully to the one who gives them to him.

2. Men does not need a woman who is only a consumer, that can't multiply. Women are helpers to men, so it hurts men a lot to know that they are the only source of income.

3. When a man is angry, he need to be talked to in a moderate manner. Remember, it is water that can quench fire, so you won't talk to him in any harsh manner for him to listen, even if he's wrong.

4. Men hate to be cheated by their women. It hurts a lot for a man to catch his partner with another guy. Even if he don't have today, give him that respect, you don't know what tomorrow is going to bring. MEN ARE JEALOUS!

5. The man always feel pleased to be comforted by his wife.

6. If a man loves you, trust me, he can do anything just for you to put on the smile.

7. Let the man food be prepared very well and in time. Don't make him eat out, not even at his office. Prepare him a lunch if necessary.

8. Make it your habit to always surprise him. It makes him feel good.

9. Always welcome him home with smiles, hugs, and soft words. You don't know the tension he went under at his job site.

10. Whenever he's out there, keep calling him to check if he's safe. Show him concern.

11. Study and know him as your ABC so that you'll know if he's in bad mood to comfort him. He might not explain to you when he's not in a good mood.

12. Whenever there is an issue, don't address the man outside, mostly in public gathering.

If you do all these, trust me, you got a perfect husband for life.

A POPE WHO DIED BECAUSE OF HIS CONVICTION ON REINCARNATION. A summary of the account of AD/CE 543-555.

A POPE WHO DIED BECAUSE OF HIS CONVICTION ON REINCARNATION. A summary of the account of AD/CE 543-555.

Emperor Justinian placed Pope Vigilius in imperial custody primarily due to a theological controversy known as the Three Chapters controversy.

This controversy involved theological disputes over the writings of three theologians who were considered Nestorian or Nestorian-leaning which simply meansthat they upheld the Knowledgethat Reincarnationis real. 

Justinian sought to condemn these writings to reconcile with the Monophysite Christians in the Eastern Roman Empire.

Pope Vigilius initially opposed Justinian's efforts but eventually agreed to support the condemnation of the Three Chapters. However, this decision was not universally accepted in the Western Church, and Vigilius faced significant opposition. In 547 AD, Justinian summoned Vigilius to Constantinople to settle the matter. Vigilius resisted, but under pressure and possibly coercion, he eventually agreed to support Justinian's position.

Vigilius was effectively placed under imperial custody from 547 AD onwards, remaining in Constantinople until his death in 555 AD. During this period, he was unable to exercise his full papal authority and faced challenges from various factions within the Church. Thus, it was a combination of theological disagreement and imperial pressure that led to Emperor Justinian putting Pope Vigilius in imperial custody.

Reincarnation is your greatest reality, your Heaven and Hell is an illusion.

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