1) BE SURE BEFORE YOU ASK HER OUT
It's very terrible to see a Brother in a Relationship, and when you ask him what he wants from the Lady and the Relationship, he can't give you a straight answer..
Which one is "I'm still thinking about it"
Thinking about it, on top 2 years old Relationship?
Be sure about her Ethnicity/Religion and how your family will welcome that first..
Be sure about your Genotype compatibility first.
Watch, Look at everything First, Physical, Social, Financial, Spiritual and otherwise.
Pray (Get your conviction)
Before you now ask a lady out, otherwise, you may end up wasting her time..
2) BE HONEST. (DON'T GIVE HER FALSE HOPE)
I counseled a lady some months back, uncle wasted her 2 years and was apologizing, will apology bring back her 2 years?
His Mother never liked the lady, but he kept assuring her that he could do something, that he would marry her, so she waited, in the end, he succumbed to his Mother and the lady was left to bite the dust.
Don't make Promises you can't keep.
3) LEAVE HER BODY OUT OF IT.
Yes Sir, don't go there at all.
Sex would complicate issues. Without sex, your brain and heart will process what they want from her faster and do so unbiasely.
4) AVOID UNREALISTIC GOALS
I must buy a Car First
I must build a house first.
"I must do this, I must do that... " and she will enter Menopause, you will now be saying she's now too old for you, you want someone younger to marry. Fear God oh.
5) AVOID LONG COURTSHIP
Don't put a ring on a lady's finger when you are not ready to Marry her in a few months time, maximum a Year. Make God no vex for you.
Don't make any Lady Lord of the Rings. If you aren't ready, clear road for those that are ready.
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(c) Musa Gift
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