Many married women found out too late, the importance of marrying a man whose views of marriage and being a husband involved them making the home the first priority.
It’s important to provide money but there’s so much more than that.
Is this a man who’d be there when you need? A man who’d be able to have conversations with you and not see your need to connect as being petty?
Is this a man who’d carry you along on all issues important?
Is this a man who’d be happy keep trying to be better for you?
Is this a man who’d value the productive time spent at home with you (and the children) as a family unit?
Is this a man whose sense of duty would be to you and the home?
These are critical things to ask. Things many of us wish we had asked.
It is evident in a man’s actions, his values. But how can you pick such a man if you don’t even know the important things to look out for?
-Shamseddin Giwa
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