SIGNS THAT YOU ARE IN THE WRONG RELATIONSHIP – avoid them and safe your life!!!
Good or bad, every relationship has indicators. One common indicator in every wrong relationship is that:
You cannot be in a wrong relationship and not know.
Surprised?
As confusing as that sounds, it’s really true. Deep down within you, down, down somewhere there, you will inevitably have that nudging within you that there is something wrong with that relationship.
Here is a list of signs that show that you are in a wrong relationship.
1. YOU ARE NOT YOUR REAL SELF
A wrong relationship will squeeze you up. It sucks also. It will always attempt to make you to adapt to the other person without a corresponding demand on them as well for change and adaptation. You become a shadow of your real self – always trying to be who you are not in order to make someone else accept you, love you, validate and eventually marry you. That is not love. That is a cage, a lifelong one. Get out of it now before it is too late.
2. YOU ARE FULL OF SELF DOUBT
A situation where you aren’t sure of anything. I mean, there are no inner guarantees and assurances within you that everything will be alright. Even when you now seem to be sure, that assurance is short lived – it soon fizzles out into outer space and you are back to square one. You are not always sure about the tomorrow of that relationship. It seems to be looking good today, but you have a feeling everything might soon go south for both of you.
3. IT BRINGS VITAL RELATIONSHIPS IN YOUR LIFE TO A CLOSE
There are vital relationships in your life before this lover boy, lover girl came on board your life. Relationships with parents, siblings, mentors, business partners etc. I am talking about relationships upon which your life has been premised before he/she came. Relationships that have added colour and balance to your life. Relationships without which your whole essence is not in view. If those kinds of relationships come to an end, wahala dey
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