Buying something for someone is basic action of love but adding a little creativity on how it's delivered can makes the whole experience a memorable one.
Women men love romantic gestures to oh. Because you people seem to forget 😆
Your husband or boyfriend could be working so hard and have no time to spend on himself.
A very powerful romantic thing you can do is to block out their calendar for a weekend, tell him to dress up that you want to spoil him with your money. (Your money oh. Not the one he gave you)
And you make the whole weekend about him.
Do you think that guy will forget that in a hurry?
The normal thing to do is to make breakfast and serve but the extra could be to fuel his car and also send over lunch to him or take the lunch to his office yourself.
Being romantic is doing the normal in a special way that is memorable.
We all have what it takes to be romantic partner, we just have to tap into that area of our life.
And I will give you the secret soon
It's important also to know that romance is not just about red 🌹rose.
It could be a part of it for some people but it's not all there is to it.
some don't really care about flowers that will die off. 😆
So another dimension of being a romantic partner is being truthful, transparent, trustworthy and communicating in a healthy way.
Not stressing your partner can be so romantic.
Not making the guess if you are happy or sad or confuses can be romantic.
Not asking them if you are fat while you know if they say yea that it turns to world war 3 can be romantic too.
😆
For some people if you can love your partner right that they desire to always have you around , you are romantic.
More on being romantic.
Being romantic is about finding what makes your partner happy and always doing it.
Being romantic is stopping those bad behaviors your partner is always complaining about.
They will take good behaviour from you above flower and candles.
They just need you to be supportive of their dreams and to know they can trust you.
This is why I said earlier that being romantic can be relative.
So going forward to be the best partner there is. Ask your partner, what being romantic means to them or what can you do that appear romantic to them.
For some you might see it's as simple as sending pictures and videos of you or sending random voice messages during the day, or helping them keep track of something they usually forget.
When you ask you get a clear picture of what you need to start doing if they are the rose and candle type or they just want you to do some basic things for them.
Because some don't like rose and if you keep buying rose you will just be wasting money.
You might think that makes you romantic but that doesn't because the person you are doing it for doesn't see it as romantic.
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