Monday 26 September 2022

Don't ever marry out of pressure, don't marry because it's late and suitors are scarce

 

IF YOU ARE SINGLE, READ THIS AND THANK GOD .

That's a question only you can give answer to.....

No one else can tell you if someone you are in a relationship with is actually meant for you, except you.

Marriage is not predestined, marriage is by choice.

And in making this choice, you have to look within you, find out who you are, what you want in life and then the values you cherish.

It is upon these things that you decide whom to marry. If for example you cant take smoking, it's already defined that you shouldn't marry a smoker, no matter the odds. If you know you love staying close to God always, don't even accept someone who thinks otherwise. These are just examples,the most important thing is for you to look within you. Are you truly satisfied within you that you should go ahead with this person,or you are having doubts but ignoring it out of pressure?

Don't ever marry out of pressure, don't marry because it's late and suitors are scarce. Don't marry because you want to be relieved of your burden. Marry someone you know will help you fulfill purpose. Your purpose is that thing you love doing. Anything that stops your purpose will stop your life. Don't marry someone that will make you a housewife and then you can't go out and pursue purpose. Most people ignore these only to regret after marriage, and once married, you have entered..
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