5 Likely Great Reasons of Broken Relationship/Courtship!
A broken relationship is better than a broken home they say! True! But you can also have the best! You can have a smooth relationship that will lead to marriage! How?
By avoiding these:
1) Impatience: if you rush into a relationship, you may have to rush out. Don't choose wrongly out of impatience. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers says the word. Don't bend the rule! Can two work together without agreement? Amos 3:3.
You are a child of light! Choose light! Don't say I will change him or her. Only God changes a soul! Be patient! Your age does not matter. If it worth doing, then it worth doing well. Pray and take wise counsel before proceeding. Find out everything you need to know and be sure God is leading you. Then get a good mentor for your relationship as you commence your courtship.
2) Immaturity: Marriage is for grown up adults not a child's play. You must be matured in every wise before you start preparing for marriage. Be matured physically, emotionally and spiritually. Emotionally you must be balanced and stable. You will discover different things and character of your partner. Solve issues with maturity. You will have to disagree and agree most often on many issues.
3) Prayerlessness: You started in faith, don't end it in the flesh. The devil does not want any christian home to come into play. He knows more soldiers will be raised against his kingdom. So expect disagreements and be ready to win. Fight your battles together on your kneels. don't allow prayerlessness. There will be war against your relationship, pray and win! Some people does not want to see your joy. They don't want you settle down in marriage. Do not be ignorant of the devices of the enemy says the word of God.
4)Sin: Don't allow sin to creep in into your relationship. Keep your body pure until marriage. When you start sinning, you both get tired and discouraged. Both of you will start feeling you both are not the best choice for one another. Focus on building your carrier and purpose as you build your relationship, not on touches, romance and sex. God is not happy with such relationships living in sexual sins and other sins. It may eventually break when you loose God's backing.
5) Parental Disapproval: parents need to approve your relationship. This area needs a lot of prayers, counsellings and patience. Most especially for those facing disapproval for some reasons. Sometimes, you need great patience, wisdom and prayers, most especially when you are sure of what you are doing. A lot of people does not know what they are doing. And so, a little shaking, they are gone! When parents see great maturity, and with good prayers, they succumb. Parents want the best for their children. That is why they always want to guide you. Although, not all parental guidance are correct. So many guide against God's will, in the name of the 'best'.
Determine to lead yours to marriage through good prayers, counsels, patience, self discipline, and great determination.
I see you make it in your relationships as it leads to marriage in the mighty name of Jesus.
I see all wrong relationships that will yield regret in future destroyed and the lives channeled aright in the mighty name of Jesus. You will not marry wrongly in Jesus name. Peace shall be your end in Jesus name.
Shalom!
©Evang Kemi Longe
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