Friday, 27 September 2019

Should I get married simply because I am over 33 yet I don't love the man?

You can get married late in life or not at all. However, if you want children and feel the need to be married before you have children, 33 is an age to be seriously considering marriage. Being in love is not absolutely necessary for a successful marriage - many people have arranged marriages and things turn out fine. Consider carefully if this is a man you can respect, a potential good father and a good life partner. You should share similar values, at least a few interests, and you should find him reasonably attractive. If he is all of these things, he is a good candidate for marriage. Don't get married because just because of societal expectations though - get married because you desire marriage yourself. Otherwise, you will be miserable, especially with a man you don't love!