How to know if i can fertilize

 
If you are male, you could have your semen analysed. It is a simple test that will tell you about how many sperms there are in a sample of your semen, as well as other characteristics of the semen. It will also be able to tell you if the sperms appear normal and move normally.

If you are female, it is far more difficult to determine if you are fertile and far too complex to describe here.

At any rate, these tests can only tell you about some of the factors that affect fertility. Whether a couple can produce a child is dependent upon many factors, some of which cannot be tested. The final test of fertility remains pregnancy and delivery of a baby.

Causes of running stomach

 
Several conditions can cause diarrhoea or running stomach. The commonest causes are infection or food poisoning. Food poisoning is caused due to pre-existing toxins in the food you have eaten. There is no infection. It will recover without active management and the symptoms can usually be controlled by drinking adequate amounts of fluids. If the vomiting caused by food poisoning is severe, you may need to be given IV fluids. Infective diarrhoea will require further management in addition to fluid replacement, depending upon the type of infection. Some infections may require antibiotics. There are other conditions that can also cause diarrhoea including autoimmune conditions, irritable bowel syndrome, or plain and simple anxiety.

I'm kind of fat and I feel if I ever talked to a girl she'd body shame me or ignore me because of my looks what do you think I should do beside loving yourself and all that crap?

If you are a tween or a young teen, there may be nothing much you can do except wait. Honestly, girls (and boys) in that age range can be shallow and cruel (with some exceptions of course). If you are a little older, late teens or adult, get to know a girl just as friends through shared interests - join a club, an online community, volunteer work, etc. If a girl actually knows you before you ask her out, she's much less likely to body shame or ignore you, and you'll also know whether she's the type of girl who would do such a thing. You will most likely face some rejections but keep in mind that even the most attractive men get rejected sometimes. Don't give up on love because you are afraid of rejection!

How do I know that you are HIV

 
The _only way_ to know if you are HIV positive is to undergo a blood test. There are _no symptoms_ that HIV infection causes. In the later stages, other infections caused by the low immunity can give rise to symptoms of that infection. So if you suspect that you may have had exposure to HIV, you can take a blood test to be sure of your status. There are self testing kits available which use saliva as a sample. However, these tests have a higher rate of false results than the blood based tests. The good news is that if you do turn out to be HIV positive, there are excellent medication (ART) available these days which can help you live a healthy and active life.

Pure Truant!

I have a problem. Am a student - during my first semester and my second semester I barely attended classes and my final exam is in a month time. Am scared of failure! What should I do to help myself?

Go talk to the teacher. Most teachers do not enjoy failing their students, and they may be able to give you advice.Talk to classmates who have attended the class. Ask them if you can borrow their notes. Talk to people who have taken the class in the past, and figure out what is most likely to be on the final exam. Consider getting a tutor if you can afford it. Of course, attend all the rest of the classes, and study like you've never studied before. It may not be enough, but you may be able to scrape through.

Sensational Urine Burning

What causes burning sensation when urinating
 
The commonest condition causing burning urination is dehydration. Mild to moderate dehydration can cause the urine to become highly concentrated. This can cause burning sensation while passing urine. Urinary tract infection (UTI) can cause this symptom along with high fever. A stone in the urethra or bladder can also give rise to burning urination. Some sexually transmitted infections, particularly gonorrhoea, can cause this symptom especially in males. You will need to undergo an examination and some tests to find out the cause of your problem before starting treatment, if required.

Taking excess milk

 
The human body requires energy to function properly. This is obtained from the food we eat. In addition to energy, the food we eat also provides us with essential substances required by the body for growth, repair of injuries etc. Vitamins and minerals in food are essential for various body functions. All of these are available in a mixed balanced diet. Milk alone does not contain all the nutrients required by the body. It may provide you with the required amount of calories, but not of other nutrients. Another issue that may be faced by adults is that lactose intolerance increases with age. So you may not be able to digest the large quantities of milk that you will need to consume. Milk is good as part of your diet, but a diet consisting of only milk is sure to cause deficiency disorders in any person above the age of 6 months.

Effects Newborn Diarrhoea

What causes diarrhoea to the newborn ??  
 
Diarrhoea in the newborn can be caused by several reasons. The commonest cause is an infection. Newborn babies should be exclusively breastfed upto the age of 5-6 months. In the normal course they do not need even water to be fed to them. Intestinal infections to newborn babies usually occurs when external foods are given to the baby, or when the baby is fed from an unclean nipple, or when the baby puts an unclean object in the mouth. Most common cause of diarrhoea in infants is a virus called Rotavirus. Bacteria and other organisms can also cause diarrhoea in babies. If your baby has diarrhoea, you must ensure that the baby gets adequate fluids and immediately consult a paediatrician. _Do not medicate the child without medical advice_.

Incommunicado (lack of communication between you and your boyfriend

With relationships both new and old, doing new activities together is a great way to either break the ice, or to break the everyday routine. Go somewhere exciting on a date, try cooking together, or anything that requires both of you to put down your phone for a while! Set aside some time each day when you're not staring at a screen - communication through messaging is not the same as talking face to face.

Must a teacher always laugh?

The job of a teacher is to teach, not to make students laugh, and it's okay not to have a sense of humor. A sense of humor may indeed help in keeping children more engaged in class, but a genuine interest in the students and the subjects being taught, often do just as well. Of course, a teacher may need a sense of humor, not for effective teaching, but just to get through the day - teaching is tough work and often thankless, and a sense of humor may be the only thing that helps maintain sanity on rough days!

Lumping breast

If you have a lump in your breast how do you know it's not breast cancer?

Some women have naturally more lumpy breasts than others, and most lumps are not breast cancer. Make a habit of check your breasts regularly (including towards your armpits), so that you know how your breasts normally feel. New lumps are cause for concern, especially if they feel hard, and don't move around very easily. If you are worried, it's best to go to a doctor - it's always better to be safe than sorry!

Is it normal that a new born can have toiletry eevryday or twice a day

 
Newborn babies usually pass stools and urine soon after every feed. This is a natural reflex in the body. Feeding induces a reflex to pass stools. As the newborn grows, they attain better control over their urinary and anal sphincters. This enables them to control the passing of stools and urine. With increasing age of the baby, the frequency of passing stools and urine decreases.

I have Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, is there any chance to have child?

 
PCOS or Polycystic Ovary Syndrome is a group of symptoms, one of which is the formation of multiple cysts in the ovaries due to incomplete rupture of the follicles. Some individuals may not develop cysts at all, while most have multiple cysts in the ovary. Incomplete rupture of follicles causes the egg to not be released. There are multiple aspects to PCOS and it can occur with varying degrees of severity in different individuals. The basic underlying defect is an imbalance in hormonal balance in the body. In addition to the sex hormones, insulin also may have a role to play in PCOS. There are several treatment modalities available for PCOS. Most of these attempt to correct the hormonal balance. It is possible to restore fertility in individuals with PCOS. You must consult a gynaecologist for a complete evaluation and appropriate treatment.

Troubled Nude Pics ?*

My boyfriend took nude pictures of me without me knowing, what may be his motives?

Men/boys are very visual creatures when it comes to sex - he probably wanted nude pictures of you simply because he thinks you look sexy, and wanted to have the pictures to look at even when you're not around. In the worst case, he wanted to share them with others.

In any case, he shouldn't have taken pictures without your permission! Ask him to delete the pics, and tell him he'll face consequences if he does it again without your consent.

In many countries (UK, Canada, Singapore, India, South Africa...), his act might be deemed illegal under anti-voyuerism laws!

But on serious note, why must you snap nude pix and left it in ur phone if not to give it to him

Excess release of wax through the ear

Is it normal for your ears to release alot of wax 
 
Ear wax or Cerumen is secreted within the ear as a protective mechanism. This along with the hair in the ear canal prevents the entry of foreign objects into the ear. The amount and consistency of ear wax varies from person to person. Some individuals may produce less ear wax, some more. Some may produce wetter ear wax, others dry wax. Ear wax is pushed out of the ear naturally. In some individuals however, ear wax may collect in the ear canal and get impacted. Impaction may occur due to drying of the ear wax inside the ear canal, due to obstruction in the ear canal, shape of the ear canal, or when it is pushed in by the use of ear buds. One should not attempt to remove impacted wax. You could injure the ear drum. You should consult a qualified health professional for the same.

Fidel husband

I married my husband last month but he told me that he doesn't trust me, he says he will trust me as time goes on?

Was this an arranged marriage, not a love marriage? If you and your husband don't know each other well, what he says is reasonable - at least he is willing to trust you as he gets to know you. If this wasn't an arranged marriage, you need to have a good talk with him about why he has trouble trusting you, and why he married you when he doesn't even trust you!

Can she get pregnant if she has sex after 7 days since ovulation?

 
Seven days post ovulation is close to the outer limit of the fertile period. The problem here is how do you determine the day of ovulation? There is no reliable method to do so that you can practice at home. What if your ovulation was delayed by a few days in that cycle? This is the reason that the rhythm method is not a reliable method of contraception. It relies on estimating the date of ovulation. This estimate can go wrong. If you do not want to get pregnant, there are several inexpensive and highly efficient methods of contraception available. These have been discussed in earlier answers on this channel. Use of any of those methods along with the use of a condom will prevent both pregnancy as well as sexually transmitted infections.

Why is eye contact important when you're doing a presentation?

In many cultures, eye contact signifies truthfulness as well as sincerity and confidence. Eye contact also makes the presentation seem more personal, thus more likely to keep the attention of the audience.

What is the maximum months until a nursing mother starts having her monthly period?

A nursing mother can go a very long time without having a period - while the average is around 14 months for those who breastfeed, some women can go years without having their period if they continue to breastfeed frequently. Don't assume you won't get pregnant though - a minority of women with no periods (around 6%) will get pregnant within 6 months despite breastfeeding.

Does morning after pills more efficient than other methods?

 
Morning after pills are efficient at preventing pregnancy. However, these pills have to be taken within a certain time after the unprotected sexual intercourse. This time interval can vary from 50-150 hours after sexual intercourse. The later you take the pills, the less efficient they are. Morning after pills usually work by altering the hormonal balance to prevent implantation of the fertilised egg. _Occasionally they can fail_. There are several other methods of achieving contraception which are equally or more effective than morning after pills. I have discussed these methods earlier on this channel. There are several advantages of using regular birth control methods. The greatest advantages are that you _do not_ have to remember to take the morning after pill and that these methods will be cheaper than taking morning after pills repeatedly. Use of condoms has the added advantage of protecting you against sexually transmitted infections.

Can a pregnant girl hev normal periods?

 
A pregnant woman _will not_ have menstrual periods. Pregnancy suppresses menstruation. Normally, a woman does not have her periods throughout the duration of pregnancy and as long as she is breastfeeding her baby regularly. If you are pregnant and have bleeding through the vagina, you must _immediately consult your doctor_. It is not a normal occurrence.

How long does pregnancy test kit detects hcg?

 
hCG is secreted into the blood almost immediately after implantation of the fertilised egg occurs. This hCG is excreted in urine and is the basis of the urine test for pregnancy. However, the test can only detect hCG after a certain minimum concentration is achieved in the urine. This happens approximately 6 weeks after the last menstrual period, or 2 weeks after the missed period. This is variable and the test may be positive earlier or later in different women. hCG can also be detected in blood. However, the urine test is simpler,cheaper and can be done at home.

How can muscles and torn ligament be repaired?

 
There is nothing that you can do to repair muscles and torn ligaments. If the tear or strain is minor, the body will repair it naturally. You can help the process by giving the affected region adequate rest and other such management as taking anti inflammatory drugs for a short period. More severe tears may need to be corrected by surgery if possible. Surgical treatment may not be possible in all cases. Even if it can be done, surgical treatment will not bring the torn ligament or muscle back to original condition. There will always be a defect and you will need to take care while stressing that area.

What is the name of spectacles' that should be worn by a pesorn with photophobia

 
Photophobia literally means fear of light. Medically, this term is used when a person is highly sensitive to light. In mild cases, it may only be sensitivity to bright light, but the level of sensitivity varies. To answer your question, you need to wear dark glasses. You may use tinted lenses, photochromatic lenses, or polarised lenses. You will have to try out different lenses to see which one you are comfortable with. The more important issue is to determine the cause of your photophobia or photosensitivity. There are many reasons why a person may develop increased sensitivity to light. Some of these are treatable. You must consult an eye specialist for an evaluation.

Desperate mother to daughter

My daughter is 32yrs she is not married yet. I tried to talk to her about planning her marriage but she is not responding should I keep on telling her or should I leave it and wait until she is ready for marriage?

At 32, your daughter is definitely old enough to decide for herself if and when she wants to get married. You can offer her help, but don't be offended if she doesn't take it. Don't pester her so much that she avoids talking to you altogether!

Name of spectacle for photophobia

 
Photophobia literally means fear of light. Medically, this term is used when a person is highly sensitive to light. In mild cases, it may only be sensitivity to bright light, but the level of sensitivity varies. To answer your question, you need to wear dark glasses. You may use tinted lenses, photochromatic lenses, or polarised lenses. You will have to try out different lenses to see which one you are comfortable with. The more important issue is to determine the cause of your photophobia or photosensitivity. There are many reasons why a person may develop increased sensitivity to light. Some of these are treatable. You must consult an eye specialist for an evaluation.

Risky HIV

 
HIV is transmitted through exchange of body fluids. The body fluids that transmit HIV are blood, semen, vaginal secretions, and breast milk. Other body fluids are incapable of transmitting HIV. You can reduce the risk of contracting HIV by not exposing yourself to these body fluids from an HIV infected person. Use condoms at each and every sexual encounter. Do not share razor blades or toothbrushes. Razor blades and toothbrushes can get contaminated with blood. Do not share needles and syringes. You must make it a point to follow this advice all the time. If you do have a suspected exposure to HIV, you must report to a doctor. Depending on the region you are in Post Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP) may be available. HIV positive mothers should take medical advice during pregnancy and before breastfeeding their children to minimise mother to child transmission of HIV.

Cumming multiple times

I heard one doctor say, we should cum 5 times a week in order to prevent prostate cancer. What do u know about that??
 
The major risk factor for prostate cancer appears to be genetic. If you have a particular sort of gene, you are at higher risk to develop prostate cancer. If you develop a particular mutation of a gene, you are at higher risk of prostate cancer. The point is that even if you have the “high-risk” gene, you may still not develop cancer. The gene only predisposes you to prostate cancer. Many other factors may influence prostate cancer. It is still unknown what all these factors are. Smoking, diet rich in red meat, infection and inflammation of the prostate, and exposure to certain chemicals are some of the factors being researched. While there have been some studies showing a linkage between higher frequency of sex and lower incidence of prostate cancer, there is no direct cause-effect relationship between the two. As I explained earlier, there are _many factors_ that affect prostate cancer.

Does sex prevent prostate cancer?

 
The major risk factor for prostate cancer appears to be genetic. If you have a particular sort of gene, you are at higher risk to develop prostate cancer. If you develop a particular mutation of a gene, you are at higher risk of prostate cancer. The point is that even if you have the “high-risk” gene, you may still not develop cancer. The gene only predisposes you to prostate cancer. Many other factors may influence prostate cancer. It is still unknown what all these factors are. Smoking, diet rich in red meat, infection and inflammation of the prostate, and exposure to certain chemicals are some of the factors being researched. While there have been some studies showing a linkage between higher frequency of sex and lower incidence of prostate cancer, there is no direct cause-effect relationship between the two. As I explained earlier, there are _many factors_ that affect prostate cancer.

Simple Tetanus

 
Tetanus can be fatal. Even with the best treatment, tetanus can kill. Fortunately, there is an excellent preventive measure available. Getting immunised with anti tetanus vaccine (Tetanus Toxoid) will give you protection against getting it for about 5 years. All you need to do is to get a booster dose every five years. It is an inexpensive and reliable way of not contracting tetanus. In addition, you must also remember to clean all wounds immediately and get proper medical attention for deep wounds. Wounds can cause other infections other than tetanus.

Can she get pregnant if she has sex after 7 days since ovulation?

 
Seven days post ovulation is close to the outer limit of the fertile period. The problem here is how do you determine the day of ovulation? There is no reliable method to do so that you can practice at home. What if your ovulation was delayed by a few days in that cycle? This is the reason that the rhythm method is not a reliable method of contraception. It relies on estimating the date of ovulation. This estimate can go wrong. If you do not want to get pregnant, there are several inexpensive and highly efficient methods of contraception available. These have been discussed in earlier answers on this channel. Use of any of those methods along with the use of a condom will prevent both pregnancy as well as sexually transmitted infections.

Name of spectacle for photophobia

 
Photophobia literally means fear of light. Medically, this term is used when a person is highly sensitive to light. In mild cases, it may only be sensitivity to bright light, but the level of sensitivity varies. To answer your question, you need to wear dark glasses. You may use tinted lenses, photochromatic lenses, or polarised lenses. You will have to try out different lenses to see which one you are comfortable with. The more important issue is to determine the cause of your photophobia or photosensitivity. There are many reasons why a person may develop increased sensitivity to light. Some of these are treatable. You must consult an eye specialist for an evaluation.

What is the first aid to treat a person who is bitten by a dog?

 
The greatest fear from a dog bite is of contracting Rabies. The treatment for Rabies is vaccination after a bite from a suspected infected animal or after a bite from an unknown or unobservable animal. Apart from Rabies, dog bites can also cause various other diseases. Saliva of dogs contain bacteria and other organisms that can cause disease in humans. First aid in case of a dog bite is to _immediately_ wash the wound thoroughly with running water and soap. This will cleanse the area of most of the infective organisms, thus decreasing the injected dose of organism. _Do not_ bandage the area unless it is bleeding profusely. Once this is done, you should immediately consult a doctor for further treatment.

In our culture they don't allow dating a guy who is younger than a lady. They allow dating a guy who is older than a lady. So what should I do - should I move on and leave him or what ..?

There's no good reason why a woman shouldn't be able to date a man who is younger (especially if the age difference is small), and if this guy makes you happy then the relationship is probably worth a fight. Keep in mind also, that despite taboos, criticisms will likely fade over time if people see that you are happy and settled. However it's important to choose your battles wisely - if staying with him makes you more miserable than leaving him, then it's also okay to choose not to fight. Choose the path that leaves you with the least regrets.

What is the first aid to treat a person who is bitten by a dog?

 
The greatest fear from a dog bite is of contracting Rabies. The treatment for Rabies is vaccination after a bite from a suspected infected animal or after a bite from an unknown or unobservable animal. Apart from Rabies, dog bites can also cause various other diseases. Saliva of dogs contain bacteria and other organisms that can cause disease in humans. First aid in case of a dog bite is to _immediately_ wash the wound thoroughly with running water and soap. This will cleanse the area of most of the infective organisms, thus decreasing the injected dose of organism. _Do not_ bandage the area unless it is bleeding profusely. Once this is done, you should immediately consult a doctor for further treatment.

Why do girls get wet when they are not even having sex and even when they are not thinking about of sex?

The vagina is self-cleaning, and naturally produces some discharge to clean itself! Physical stimulation - something as simple as going up and down the stairs can also cause wetness, even if the girl isn't turned on at all. Ovulation also tends to get a girl wet - when a woman is most fertile, her body naturally produces more lubrication even if she's not thinking about sex.

Is using earpiece good for the ear

 
Ear pieces and ear buds fit snugly into the ear canal. The sound that they produce is directed on the ear drum and does not dissipate. If you listen to anything at high volume through the ear pieces, it is likely to cause damage to your hearing over a period of time. This is why newer phones and music devices have a set upper limit to the volume when you connect the earphone jack. Use of over-the-ear headphones are relatively safer. However, listening to high decibel sounds could cause hearing loss.

How accurate can be a pregnancy scan in terms of delivery dates

 
Ante natal ultrasound scans can estimate the period of gestation with reliable accuracy. This is done by comparing various parameters measured on the foetus with standard values that are available. From the period of gestation, an Estimated Date of Delivery (EDD) is calculated. This date is only an estimate. The baby will be born when it wants to be. This natural process cannot be predicted. There are far too many variable that affect labour and delivery. In the majority of cases, however, the EDD is correct to within 7-10 days of the actual date of delivery.

I am a boy and my hair by the corners of my head in the front is receding. What should I do?

Do you have male relatives - father, grandfathers who are bald? If so, there's nothing much you can do - unfortunately, some men/boys start having receding hairlines, even as youngsters. There are medications you can take to slow down the process, but they can have side effects, and aren't recommended for teens. You could also visit a doctor to discuss the issue - occasionally, there are hormone imbalances that cause balding, and if you want treatment, you need to see a doctor anyways. In the meantime, experiment with different hairstyles (possibly a shaved head) - and don't let your hair affect your self-esteem. Most men will lose hair sooner or later anyways!

How accurate can be a pregnancy scan in terms of delivery dates

 
Ante natal ultrasound scans can estimate the period of gestation with reliable accuracy. This is done by comparing various parameters measured on the foetus with standard values that are available. From the period of gestation, an Estimated Date of Delivery (EDD) is calculated. This date is only an estimate. The baby will be born when it wants to be. This natural process cannot be predicted. There are far too many variable that affect labour and delivery. In the majority of cases, however, the EDD is correct to within 7-10 days of the actual date of delivery.

Family planning &HIV is it safe to use family planning methods while yu a on art.

 
Drugs used in ART can interact with hormonal contraceptives. Hormonal contraceptives may be in the form of pills or injectables. The interaction can cause increase or decrease in the concentration of the contraceptive hormone. This interaction is highly variable between different individuals as well as between different drugs. There is a variety of other contraceptive methods that you can choose from. Condoms or other barrier contraceptives can be used safely. Similarly, implantable uterine devices should also be effective. You should consult your doctor to have a detailed discussion on the best method of contraception for you. If you do decide to use a hormonal contraceptive, it would be advisable to combine it with another method such as barrier contraceptive.

Contagion Elephantiasis

 
Elephantiasis is a condition where parts of the body, commonly the legs or arms, swell up due to collection of fluid in the tissues. There are several conditions that can cause extreme swelling of the limbs. However, this term is usually used to denote swelling in the limbs due blockage of the lymphatic system caused by infection with the filarial parasite. Filariasis is a worm infestation that is spread by mosquitoes. The larvae are injected by the mosquito bit after which they grow and multiply. This can block lymphatic vessels causing swelling in the limbs. Treatment is available for filariasis which will eradicate the infection. Treatment for the swelling, however, is more difficult.

What happens after swallowing bubble gum?

Usually, some, but not all of the bubble gum will get digested and pass through your body in about a week or so (most foods only take 2 to 3 days). So, if you swallow bubblegum by accident once in a while, you don't need to get worried, but you certainly should not make a habit of it. Because gum digests so slowly, swallowing too may end up blocking intestines, especially in small children.

Is coffee allowed to be given to children?

Coffee contains large amounts of caffeine which affects children more than adults. Children will end up jittery, anxious, and unable to sleep from small amounts of coffee, unlike adults who won't have the same symptoms unless they drink a large amount. Caffeine is also addictive, and it's not clear how large amounts of caffeine will affect a developing brain - while small sips of coffee is certainly fine, it's best to stay from daily cups of coffee at least until the child is in their late teens.

Is it wise to do pregnancy test anytime of the day or in the morning?️

 
The urine pregnancy test can be done at any time of the day. However, early in pregnancy, the concentration of protein detected by the test may be low in the urine. In such cases it is a good idea to use the first morning sample to test for pregnancy. This is because the urine is most concentrated early in the morning, and therefore the concentration of the protein is higher. Samples collected during the day are more dilute as you drink water throughout the day.

What to do if condoms give you rash as a girl???

Some people are sensitive or allergic to latex which is used to make most condoms. Look for condoms made from polyurethane or polyisoprene. If you have a steady partner whom you absolutely trust, you could forego condoms and use other forms of contraceptives such as birth control pills, depo provera, IUDs, etc that protect against pregnancy, but not STIs.

Rebound Books of girlfriend

My girlfriend breakups with me because she wanted time 2 concentrate with her books but to my surprise she is now dating some one what should I do?

What to do when one is burnt by fire

 
The first thing to do when you are burnt by fire is to put out the flames. The flames may be burning on clothes and they need to be put out by pouring water or smothering it with a thick blanket. Once the flames are out, you should try to cool the burnt area by holding it under cool water. _Do not use ice or cold water for this_. The idea is to cool the burnt area and the surrounding tissues to prevent further damage. As soon as possible, take the person to a hospital for further treatment. _Do not apply any creams, ointments, oils, or herbs on the burnt area_. If there is any clothing stuck on the burnt skin, _do not_ try to peel it off. Only remove bits of clothing that come off easily. Keep the area clean, cover it with a loose bandage and go to a hospital.

I found out that my boyfriend have the tendency of stealing my phone at night and go through my stuff, how do I tell him that I hate what he does?

Instead of telling him that you hate what he does, tell him that you've noticed that he's been going through your phone, and ask if he's feeling insecure about the relationship in any way. Hopefully, you will be able to have an honest conversation about the relationship. You can then put a lock/password on your phone and tell him that your phone is private - not because you have anything to hide from him, but because you have friends and family that may tell you things that is private and not meant for his eyes - there should be some privacy, even in an relationship.

Is it possible for a girl to be pregnant 2 weeks after her menstruation

 
Ovulation occurs about 2 weeks after the start of the previous menstrual period. If sexual intercourse happens around that time, fertilisation can occur. So, yes, it is possible for a girl to be pregnant 2 weeks after her last menstrual period. However, she may not know it. It will take about another month for urine tests to become positive for pregnancy. It will also take a further 2 weeks or so for the pregnancy to show up clearly on an ultrasound scan.

Does a person with high viral load look healthy?

A high viral load indicates a rapid rate of multiplication of HIV. In the usual course, a high viral load corresponds to a low CD4 count. This is because more number of viruses in the blood means greater destruction of CD4 cells. However, it can happen that the viral load is high but the CD4 count is not very low. A high viral load does not directly affect a person. It is decrease in CD4 cells that causes the individual to fall ill. Decreased immunity makes a person ill in more ways than just contracting infection. A person with a high viral load may appear healthy until their CD4 count falls below a critical level. That is the point at which they start to be unwell.

Is condom 100% sure️

No
 
_Nothing in this world is 100% safe_. Condoms are prepared in such a way that microbes and sperms cannot pass through the material. In real life, however, condoms may not be used correctly every time. Condoms may be reused, they may not be worn correctly, they may break during sexual intercourse, they may slip off during sexual intercourse, they may have expired, or they may not have been stored correctly. These are just some of the reasons why condoms can fail. In fact, the practice of carrying a condom in the wallet or in the pocket can weaken the material by exposing it to high ambient temperatures and increase the chances of failure. If used correctly each and every time, condoms have very high efficiency. In real life however, they have been estimated to be about 85% efficient in preventing sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy.

Why some guys are not romantic?

It's not just men - there are plenty of women who are not very "romantic" as well. Some people place less importance in the communication and display of love than others. It's not necessarily the case that unromantic people feel less love - they just don't feel the need to show it or dwell in it as much - in fact, some people might find blatant celebrations of love rather embarrassing!

Why is it that girls are intelligent than boys at school but boys end up being successful and rich when they are older? (Patriarchy strike)

Boys often do well in schools as they grow older - girls tend to be more mature than boys at a younger age, but boys catch up. Of course, that doesn't explain why boys tend to be more successful in the long run! Unfortunately, much of the world is still stacked against girls - boys often get paid more than girls for the same job, and get promoted more quickly just for being male. Men are pressured by society to succeed in the workplace, while women are pressured to get married or have children. While many women will fight the double standards, many women will get disillusioned and give in. Women bear the blunt of childbirth and childcare as well - they end up sacrificing more of their career for the sake of their family and children.

Can you escape hiv after affected with gonorhea

 
 
The short answer to your question is _NO_. Gonorrhoea _does not_ provide you with any protection from HIV. On the contrary, gonorrhoea increases the chance that you may get infected by HIV. Gonorrhoea causes inflammation and injury to the genital tract. This injury makes it easier for HIV to enter the blood stream. So if you have gonorrhoea and are sexually exposed to HIV, you are more likely to be infected by HIV. Let me repeat, _Gonorrhoea does not protect you from HIV_.

Should I continue taking ARV when my undetectable viral load

 
Your viral load is undetectable because the ARV that you are taking is actively suppressing the virus. Once you stop taking your medication, HIV will start to multiply again. Over time your viral load will increase and CD4 count will decrease. Not only that, the virus in your body may also become resistant to the drugs that you are taking, making it more difficult to control. An undetectable viral load _does not_ mean that the virus is removed form your body. It only means that multiplication of the virus is suppressed and it cannot infect new cells in your body. Treatment for HIV is life long. You should not stop it.

How does a razor blade used by an HIV infected person transimit the virus if l cut myself with it when it is said hiv virus does not last longer when exposed to oxygen

 
How long HIV can survive on a razor blade depends on how much fluid is present on the blade. On a relatively dry surface, HIV cannot survive for very long. However, in the presence of blood or body fluids, HIV has been known to survive for upto 7 days at room temperature, and even longer at lower temperatures. The survivability of HIV outside the body depends on many factors which cannot be quantified. The amount of virus in the fluid, the amount of fluid, and the ambient temperature are some of the factors that influence survival of HIV outside the body. HIV does survive in the presence of oxygen. What kills HIV outside the body is exposure to sunlight or heat. It cannot be determined exactly how long HIV can survive on a razor blade. This is the reason why you are advised not to share razor blades or toothbrushes or syringes and needles. Better safe than sorry.

Does itching on the penis forehead after unsafe sex mean lm HIV positive?

 
I have repeatedly said on this channel that _HIV infection has no symptoms_. HIV gradually destroys the immune system of the body. When this destruction reaches a critical level, the immune system cannot fight any infections. This causes the individual to suffer from other “opportunistic” infections. These are the symptoms that are seen and these occur late in HIV infection. Itching on the penis after sex _is not_ a symptom of HIV infection. A common infection that is contracted after unsafe sex is Candidiasis which can cause itching on the genitalia. If it is troubling you, I would advise you to consult a doctor who can treat you after examination.

Part of a tooth has broken so should the bearer remove the whole tooth?

The treatment of broken tooth would depend on the level of dentistry facilities available in your region. Depending on the severity of injury, broken teeth can also be salvaged. One of the protocols involves doing a Root Canal Treatment (RCT) followed by either filling the tooth or placing a crown on it. It is possible that there is very little of your tooth remaining in which case it may have to be extracted. You must consult a dentist who can advise you after examining you.

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Get yourself to a dentist. Broken, even chipped teeth can be weaker and prone to further damage or infection unless treated. Take painkillers if you're in pain. At the dentist, you can discuss various options for making your tooth look whole again - bonding, capping, dental veneers, etc. Depending on the amount of damage and your budget, you can find the right solution to fix your smile!

How not to stress yourself if you are HIV Positive!

Having a chronic illness is stressful for anyone! Take the time to know your illness. As long as you get the right treatment, HIV is no longer a killing disease. Talk to your doctors and family, make sure you have easy access to information and care, and that the people closest to you are also informed and can support you. Take the illness as an opportunity to simplify your life and live healthier. Eat well, get exercise, find ways to de-stress, whether it be meditation, writing, or simply talking with friends. Cut out negative elements from your life - whether it be toxic friendships/family or unhealthy addictions. There may be days that you still feel down, but you will be okay!

Never trust anyone

Skillful makeup

Skillful and age-appropriate application of makeup will almost always make one look prettier, but it's easy to do makeup badly. Heavy makeup looks odd on young people who don't need it, and too much makeup caked on to hide flaws often looks worse than the original flaw. Also keep in mind that your favorite colors are not always the colors that look best on you...when in doubt, go for natural looking makeup!

Does a relationship of two broken hearts work?

It will work as long as you start truly appreciating each other for who you are, instead of just using each other to feel less lonely or licking each other's wounds. Hopefully, both of you will heal at the same rate - if one starts feeling much better, while the other is still brokenhearted, the relationship is unlikely to work.

Protein or pills source of muscle gain through weight lifting

You don't need proteins or pills to gain muscle from weight-lifting. Unless you're vegan, a normal diet that has some amount of daily meat or dairy will easily provide the amount of protein needed to grow muscle. In fact, too much protein may lead to other health problems - you're better off without them.

My boyfriend uses protection when having sex with me, does this mean that he doesn't trust me?

Using protection every time is the responsible thing to do if you're not ready to have children, and it doesn't mean that he doesn't trust you. Of course, it's still possible that he doesn't trust you... but it's also possible that he doesn't trust himself - if he has engaged in risky behavior in the past or present, he may be protecting you from him.

How to enlarge my penis️

 
This is another question that seems to interest a large number of subscribers to this channel. Penis size is mostly determined by heredity. If it is in your genes to have a large penis, you will. There is _no medically proven_ method to increase penis size. Several methods are advertised that claim to do that for you, but _none of those is proven to be effective_. I would not advise anybody to try unproven methods. You have what is in your genes. There is also no proof that you will be better off with a larger penis.

I have little blood and am always sick people says I have an ill ness️

 
I am not sure about what you mean when you say that you have little blood. I wonder if you have been tested for Haemoglobin (Hb) in your blood? Low haemoglobin, which is what most people mean when they say “little blood” or “thin blood”, means that there is not enough of a certain protein called Hb in your blood cells. This condition is called anaemia. Hb is what carries oxygen to the tissues from the lungs. Anaemia can cause you to become tired easily, and have a high heart rate and maybe even palpitations. In more severe cases low Hb can cause swelling in the legs, make you prone to infections, and cause deranged body functions. In children anaemia can cause stunted growth, decreased mental activities, delayed puberty and several other disorders.

You should consult your doctor for a complete evaluation. Anaemia has many causes and identification of the cause will help you get treated correctly. Most causes of anaemia are due to inadequate iron in the diet, or worms in the intestine and these can be treated quite easily. There are however other causes of anaemia as well as severe cases which will need intensive treatment.

How to know that am pregnant️

 
The first indication of pregnancy is usually that you miss your period. There are other subtle signs such as implantation bleeding, soreness or heaviness of the breast etc. However most women do not recognise these signs. You can confirm pregnancy by doing a urine test. These tests can be done at home and become positive about 6 weeks after your last menstrual period, or two weeks after you miss a period.

Is it important to circumcise ?

 
Circumcision is a cultural practice in some regions and some religions. It refers to the surgical removal of the foreskin of the penis. In these cultures, circumcision is done soon after birth and not in adult life. Many other cultures do not practice this.

Circumcision performed soon after birth may provide some protection against HPV infection. However, circumcision that is done in adult life does not protect against HPV. Medically, circumcision is only performed in some specific conditions. It is a matter of choice. If you wish to be circumcised, please consult a qualified professional for the same.

Sneezing: I sneeze a lot when i sweep dusty corners what could be wrong with me

 
Sneezing is a reaction of the body to remove any foreign substance that is in the nose. Whenever you sweep out dusty corners, you must be inhaling dust which triggers the sneezing reflex. It is also possible that you are allergic to dust. The solution to this is to wear a mask or a piece of cloth over your mouth and nose when you are in a dusty place. This will protect you from inhaling the dust. You could also take an anti-histaminic tablet which will reduce the reaction to dust. You should take medication only under medical supervision.

I love reading, and I also write at times but now that I want to get serious with writing every time I get a pen I end up writing nothing though I have ideas!

If you want to be a writer, you need to start writing every day, even if it's just one sentence. Different writers write in different ways - you can come up with a detailed story line before beginning to write, or you can just start writing, and see where your writing takes you. You can even start writing out of order from the middle or the end of the story! Don't worry about writing badly - you can always go back and fix things later.

I am a lady and am very hairy, am not comfortable, what should I do to remove all hairs permanently?

Laser hair removal and electrolysis are both long-term to permanent hair removal procedures, but both methods require multiple sessions and are costly. Among non-permanent hair removal methods, waxing lasts the longest, followed by depilatory creams, then shaving.

When somebody is short sighted definitely, is he also suffering from glaucoma...?

 
Short sightedness (Myopia) and glaucoma are two entirely different conditions. Short-sightedness is an error of refraction where the image is not focused on the retina. Appropriate glasses prescribed after a checkup can correct myopia. Glaucoma is a condition where the pressure inside the eye increases. Over time this high pressure can damage the retina and affect vision. Some individuals with myopia are more prone to develop glaucoma. However, not everybody with myopia develops glaucoma. Glaucoma is a treatable condition. Regular eye checkups will ensure that even if you do develop glaucoma, it will be detected early and can be treated.

My Friend has TB and we spend alot of time together..is it likely that I can also get TB?️

 
Tuberculosis is a bacterial infection. It can affect almost any organ of the body including lungs, stomach, intestine, bone marrow, lymph nodes, skin, and kidneys. Pulmonary tuberculosis, which affects the lungs, is the commonest form of tuberculosis and spreads by droplet infection. This means that the bacteria are carried in the droplets generated when an infected person coughs or sneezes. When these droplets are inhaled by another person, they could also be infected. Infection does not mean that you will show symptoms. Development of the disease is governed by several factors including the strength of your immunity. So, while it is possible that you may get infected, you may not develop the disease. Treatment for tuberculosis is so effective that most patients become non-infective within about 2 weeks of starting it. You must convince your friend to start Anti Tubercular Therapy (ATT) if not already started.

Shrinked vagina

How do i shrink my vagina after giving birth
 
During the process of delivery, the vagina stretches in order to accommodate the passage of the baby. The vagina is surrounded by muscles which relax during this process. Post delivery, these muscles will gradually regain their tone. In the normal course, you do not have to do anything at all. Your vagina will recover over time. It is possible for some individuals to experience a laxity of muscle tone post delivery. Kegel’s exercises are designed to strengthen the muscles of the pelvis. These are the muscles that surround the vagina and rectum. You must consult your doctor regarding the suitability of Kegel’s exercises for you. They may also be able to explain these exercises in detail to you.

How do I see if my 17 year old daughter is still a virgin without asking her?

You can't! Besides, a teenage daughter may quite possibly lie even if you ask her....and if it turns out she's not a virgin, there's nothing you can do about it anyways. Instead of worrying about whether your daughter is still a virgin, make sure she is healthy, doing well in school, and has solid friends.

If you get the chance to talk to your crush and you realize he doesn't like your tribe, what do you do?

Unless you are passionate about ridding the world of bigotry and prejudice, don't waste your time on him and move on. Your crush is not the person you thought he was - next time, find out a little more about the person before falling in love!

My boyfriend is too good at it. Is he cheating?

Sex is something that almost everyone can manage to do by instinct. However, some people are naturally better at it than others, just like some people are naturals on the dance floor, while others are awkward. Of course, practice makes perfect, but your boyfriend may simply be talented at sex even without too much practice. Unless you have other reasons to believe he is cheating, just consider yourself lucky!

Girlfriend HIV but I want to marry

 
After reading all the questions on this forum about how everybody seems to fear HIV and people living with HIV, your question is refreshingly different. As I have said many times in this channel, HIV is no longer a killer disease. This is because of the number of different medicines that are available for therapy. HIV today has become a treatable infection and hardly anyone progresses to AIDS.

From the point of view of the person infected with HIV, Anti Retroviral Therapy (ART) suppresses viral multiplication to the extent that the virus cannot be detected in blood. This is known as “undetectable viral load”. Suppression of the virus means that their immune system does not get damaged and they can lead healthy and active lives.

From your point of view, as the person wanting to marry an HIV positive person, an undetectable viral load means that the chances of transmission of the virus from her to you is negligible. In fact it has been shown that persons with HIV who are taking their ART regularly, having an undetectable viral load, and do not have another sexually transmitted infection, are virtually non-infective. The use of condoms in sexual intercourse when combined with undetectable viral load is perhaps the best way to prevent HIV transmission.

I would advise both of you to consult your doctor or a HIV counsellor in your area for a detailed discussion on the issue.

Is alcohol needed in the body️

 
The body _does not require alcohol_ for any purpose. Alcohol is said to contain “empty calories”. This means that while alcohol contains almost 7 calories per gram, these calories are devoid of any vitamins or minerals that are available in other foods. Due to the high calorific content of alcohol, it prevents the utilisation of fat in the body. This could lead to obesity. The social and addictive ill-effects of alcohol are well known. Occasional consumption of alcohol in the form of moderate social drinking may have some recreational value. From a medical standpoint, alcohol is useless as far as bodily functions are concerned.

Bleeding as a sign of virginity️

 
This is a question that I resisted answering for a long time as it is not strictly a medical issue. However, a lot of our subscribers are asking this question. A virgin is culturally accepted as a person (male or female) who has not had sexual intercourse. Virginity has _nothing to do_ with any physical characteristic. In females, there is a thin bit of tissue, called the hymen, in the vagina that can rupture during the first act of penetration. This is what gives rise to the bleeding that you are asking about. However, this tissue can also rupture from exercise, and other physical activity. The structure of the hymen can also vary from being completely absent to being thin and elastic to being thick and in some cases, it may even obstruct the vaginal opening. It is possible that even if present it may not rupture during sexual intercourse. Owing to this wide variation in the structure of the hymen and the fact that it can rupture from physical activity, absence of bleeding should not be taken as a sign of lack of virginity. Bleeding may also occur due to injury to the vagina during sex. Bleeding from the vagina _is not_ an indication of virginity. Absence of bleeding _does not_ mean that a woman is not a virgin.

My father raped me?*

My father raped me and got me pregnant, should my child call him or my actual fiancé daddy?

Even if you are unwilling to report this matter to the police (if you are pregnant with your father's child, you have clear evidence of rape), you need to protect yourself as well as well as your child from your father. Ideally, your child should never have the opportunity to meet your father or call him daddy, as for that matter.

How is toothache treated during pregnancy

 
There are certain precautions that are taken while treating a toothache in a pregnant person. Firstly, any antibiotics will have to be selected with care so that it is safe to take in pregnancy. Secondly, some procedures may not be advisable during pregnancy. The dentist may opt to use a safer stop-gap procedure and to defer the definitive procedure until after delivery. The use of painkillers also has to be carefully regulated during pregnancy. You must consult a dentist to find out the cause of your toothache. It may be due to a cause which can have a simple and quick treatment. The cause of your toothache will determine how it is treated.

Can drinking unboiled water cause any ilness️

 
The answer to your question depends on the quality of water in your region. Drinking water has many qualities including taste, smell, absence of microbes and absence of unwanted metals and minerals. In many regions, water is treated before it is supplied in the pipelines. This water may be consumed after passing it through a filter. Some regions may require water to be passed through an UV filter or boiled to kill any microbes. In some regions in the world the water can be consumed directly from the tap. The issue becomes more relevant in case the water is obtained from a well or bore well. If the water you get is free of microbes, there is no need to boil it. Boiling kills microbes. If you are sure of the quality of your water, you need not boil it. If not, boiling is a cheap, efficient and safe method of making the water free of infection-causing germs.

Homophobic: I hate gays. Is there any problem by confessing it?

Confessing it in public could be considered hate speech, and there are quite a few countries where it would be illegal. Whether or not it is illegal in your country, hatred of any group of people based on race, religion, gender, or sexual orientation is never cool!

I cut my hair and am ugly

I cut my hair and now I have short hair is it wrong to think I am ugly?

Well, ugly is a pretty strong word. It's fine to not like how you look with your new haircut, but instead of thinking "I'm ugly," why not think "my new haircut is ugly....but hair grows back, and besides, I'm beautiful on the inside!" In the meantime, if you really don't like your short hair (which is probably not as bad as you think), try some cute hats or scarves and think of it as an opportunity to experiment with a new style.

I am a player but I fell in love with someone and now I don't know how to be a player again!

A reformed bad boy, you're every woman's dream come true! Congratulations on growing up - there's absolutely nothing wrong with you.

I cut my hair and am ugly

I cut my hair and now I have short hair is it wrong to think I am ugly?

Well, ugly is a pretty strong word. It's fine to not like how you look with your new haircut, but instead of thinking "I'm ugly," why not think "my new haircut is ugly....but hair grows back, and besides, I'm beautiful on the inside!" In the meantime, if you really don't like your short hair (which is probably not as bad as you think), try some cute hats or scarves and think of it as an opportunity to experiment with a new style.

I have been coughing for 3 months now I've tried self medicating but there's no change.what should i do

 
Chronic cough can be due to several causes. You will have to find out the cause of your chronic cough before treating it. Asthma, allergies, smoking, exposure to smoke and dust, certain lung disorders can all give rise to chronic cough. Tuberculosis is an important cause of chronic cough and should definitely not be ruled out, especially if it is common in your region. Self medication will only work so much and no more. You must consult your doctor, get evaluated and then you can be treated appropriately.

I am getting lumps on my balls and it's itching, I'm getting uncomfortable. I think it is staphylococcus but I have never had unprotected sex, what could be the cause and what should I do to treat it?

 
Lumps on the testes could be due to many causes and should never be ignored. In your case though, what you perceive as lumps on the testes may be lumps in the scrotum. You should get examined by your doctor to find out the cause of your problem. You should not self-diagnose yourself as suffering from Staphylococcal infection. If it is indeed Staphylococcal infection, you should get treated immediately. At any rate, Staphylococcal infection is not spread through sexual contact.

What causes snoring and how to treat it️

 
Snoring is caused due to vibrations within the airways when air passes through. The commonest reason is weakness in the muscles around the uvula and soft palate. The uvula is the structure that you can see hanging in the back of the mouth and the soft palate is the rear portion of the upper jaw. When these muscles become weak, the uvula can fall onto the back of the throat and vibrate with the moving air. There are several other causes of snoring including obstruction in the nasal air passages, obesity, tongue falling back while sleeping on your back, obstructive sleep apnea etc. The exact cause of a person’s snoring will have to be determined by careful evaluation. Only then can a treatment plan be formulated. In the meantime, sleeping on your side may help.

What causes snoring and how to treat it️

 
Snoring is caused due to vibrations within the airways when air passes through. The commonest reason is weakness in the muscles around the uvula and soft palate. The uvula is the structure that you can see hanging in the back of the mouth and the soft palate is the rear portion of the upper jaw. When these muscles become weak, the uvula can fall onto the back of the throat and vibrate with the moving air. There are several other causes of snoring including obstruction in the nasal air passages, obesity, tongue falling back while sleeping on your back, obstructive sleep apnea etc. The exact cause of a person’s snoring will have to be determined by careful evaluation. Only then can a treatment plan be formulated. In the meantime, sleeping on your side may help.

How to get pregnant faster especially when i have 5 years without a child and i never tool contraceptives

 
Infertility is a distressing problem. There are many causes of infertility. Infertility may be due to a cause with the male partner or with the female partner. For example, in the female, it may be that eggs are not being produced or released, there may be hormonal imbalances, or there may be an issue in the uterus that is preventing pregnancy. Similarly, in the male the issue may be that sperms are not being produced at all or in adequate numbers, there are abnormal sperms being produced, or there is an issue in the tubes that carry the sperms etc. There may be infections in the reproductive organs which can be treated. The exact cause will have to be determined after careful evaluation by a specialist in infertility treatment. Even if pregnancy is not possible through the normal process, In Vitro Fertilisation ("test-tube babies") can be attempted in many cases. I advise you to consult a specialist in treating infertility for detailed discussions.

I have a boyfriend..he doesn't want to listen to my sad stories...he just quickly changes the topic or just leaves the SMS like that...does he cares for me or...I need to know?

You need to talk to your boyfriend about his behavior, and why he doesn't want to listen to you. Is it because he has too much going on in his life himself, and can't handle sad stories? Does he feel helpless because he can't help you? Are you telling him the same sad stories over and over again? Is he simply not interested? Depending on his answer, you'll know if he's a keeper or not. A good boyfriend should be there for you, for both good times and bad. Unless he has a good excuse, he's not the one for you, whether he cares for you or not.

How serious is fibroid?

 
A fibroid is a localised proliferation of muscle tissue in the uterus or cervix. It is _not malignant_. The symptoms caused by a fibroid will depend on its location as well as its size and number of fibroids. A fibroid may be too small to cause any problems or it may not be located in a sensitive area for it to show symptoms. In such cases, it may only be picked up incidentally upon ultrasound scans done for some other reason. Fibroids may cause symptoms related to their size or location. In such cases, a careful evaluation will be required to determine if treatment is required and if so what treatment is to be offered. Treatment for fibroid is surgery. This may involve just removing the fibroid or in more severe cases, removal of the uterus. This is a decision that has to be made after evaluation.

Type of husband I should get if I want to be a lawyer?

You can get any kind of husband you want, as long as he's supportive of you becoming a lawyer. Lawyers often work more than 8 hrs a day and sometimes on the weekends too...and depending on the type of law you practice, it can be a very stressful job, although rewarding as well! Hopefully, you and your husband will make enough money to get hired help at home, and your husband needs to be willing to share the burden of childcare and housework when there is no help available.

How serious is fibroid?

 
A fibroid is a localised proliferation of muscle tissue in the uterus or cervix. It is _not malignant_. The symptoms caused by a fibroid will depend on its location as well as its size and number of fibroids. A fibroid may be too small to cause any problems or it may not be located in a sensitive area for it to show symptoms. In such cases, it may only be picked up incidentally upon ultrasound scans done for some other reason. Fibroids may cause symptoms related to their size or location. In such cases, a careful evaluation will be required to determine if treatment is required and if so what treatment is to be offered. Treatment for fibroid is surgery. This may involve just removing the fibroid or in more severe cases, removal of the uterus. This is a decision that has to be made after evaluation.

Pimples in the Wrong Place

My dick has several white pimples around its head they have been there since teenage years and now I'm a man ready for marriage could there be any problem about them🤔?

Most white bumps on your penis are usually nothing to worry about - they could simply be pimples, papules, fordyce spots, or ingrown hairs - all perfectly harmless. There are several STIs that could cause white bumps though - if you were sexually active in your teenage years before getting the pimples, you may want to get them checked just in case.

Do vaccines cause diseases

 
_No, vaccines do not cause diseases_. Vaccines work by stimulating an immune response in the body against the organism that we are trying to provide protection against. This immune response may cause fever and in some cases a mild form of the disease that we are vaccinating against. These symptoms usually last for just 2-3 days after which they regress. Occasional rare cases are known where a vaccine causes full blown disease. This usually occurs when the vaccine has not been stored properly or when the vaccinated individual has an abnormal immune response to the vaccine.

My period is late with two days I had unprotected sex but used withdraw method can I be pregnant

 
Delay of two days in the occurrence of your period is _by itself_ not a cause for worry. Menstrual periods do not follow an exact timetable. Periods can be delayed or early by a few days.

Withdrawal as a method of contraception is a _very inefficient_ method. It has a high failure rate. So there is a high chance of pregnancy if you practice withdrawal method of contraception. You must test for pregnancy about 7-10 days after your anticipated date of period, if you still do not get it. You must consider using any of the other efficient means of contraception. Use of condoms will help prevent transmission of sexually transmitted infections as well as help prevent pregnancy.

Do vaccines cause diseases

 
_No, vaccines do not cause diseases_. Vaccines work by stimulating an immune response in the body against the organism that we are trying to provide protection against. This immune response may cause fever and in some cases a mild form of the disease that we are vaccinating against. These symptoms usually last for just 2-3 days after which they regress. Occasional rare cases are known where a vaccine causes full blown disease. This usually occurs when the vaccine has not been stored properly or when the vaccinated individual has an abnormal immune response to the vaccine.

What exactly causes period pain

 
During the menstrual cycle, the inner lining of the uterus, called the endometrium, thickens in preparation for a possible pregnancy. In the event that a fertilised egg does not implant in the endometrium, it sheds off at the end of the cycle. This process of shedding involves constriction of blood vessels and some amount of tissue death. It is this process of shedding that causes pain. Some people are more sensitive to this pain than others.

There are other reasons why this pain may be severe. Presence of uterine fibroids, endometrial polyps, a condition called endometriosis etc can cause severe pain. Any person complaining of period pains must be evaluated to exclude any of these conditions.

Why do my breast become painful when i am close to my periods

Menstrual cycle is caused by the interaction of several hormones in the body. These hormones also affect the breast tissue in addition to the endometrium. The breast tissue also undergoes cyclical changes through the menstrual cycle. These changes include increase and decrease in size of the tissue as well as other changes in the cells. The breast tissue of some individuals is more sensitive to the effects of these hormones than others. You may be highly sensitive to the effect of these hormones. This is probably why you have painful breasts around your periods. However, you should not ignore your symptoms. You should consult your doctor who can examine you to make sure that there is no other problem. Once that is confirmed, they can probably prescribe some appropriate treatment to help decrease the pain.

My boyfriend is on ART and have been having unprotected sex for over 6 months now. I tested HIV negative, could it be that I am still in the window period?

Now that you know, insist on using a condom at every sexual intercourse. It is possible that you are still in the window period. You will need testing at regular intervals for up to a year from the time of your last exposure. Your doctor or HIV counsellor should be able to explain this in detail as per the protocols prevalent in your region. It is also possible that your boyfriend’s viral load is low to undetectable because of the ART that he is taking. In such a case, the chances of transmission of HIV from him to you would be very low. It is possible that you have not been infected. However, you will need further testing in order to be absolutely sure. In the meantime, I would advise you to practice safe sex, use condoms and not to share toothbrushes and razors with him.

Does herbal or nonclinical abortion lead to miscarriages in later pregnancies

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The use of herbal methods and non clinical methods of abortion can have several ill effects. The kind of herb used and dosage will determine the efficacy of the abortion as well as any other effects. It is impossible to predict the outcomes of these methods. Non clinical abortions are invasive procedures that are performed by untrained individuals. These methods essentially involve scraping off the endometrial layer of the uterus and along with it the fertilised egg. Incompetently performed invasive abortions can have very serious complications including perforation of the uterus, uncontrolled bleeding, infection, and septicaemia. Uterine adhesions can also occur which can lead to infertility. Abortions should only be performed by trained professionals.

Cure for Diabetes

 
Diabetes mellitus _cannot_ be cured. The blood glucose levels can be controlled and complications of diabetes mellitus can be prevented or delayed. Control of blood glucose levels requires diet control, physical activity and medication. Medication is to be taken life long and will need to be prescribed by your doctor after examination and tests. Regular testing will be required to adjust the dosage if required. It is incorrect to believe that all carbohydrate rich foods need to omitted from the diet of a diabetic. Some amount of carbohydrate is essential for the body to function. Diet control is what is required for a diabetic and diet will have to be controlled life long. Your doctor should be able to advise you as to the appropriate diet considering the usual diet in your region.

How dangerous or how deadly is gonorrhea?

 
Gonorrhoea is a bacterial infection. It spreads by vaginal, anal and oral sex. It can also be passed from mother to child during childbirth. Gonorrhoea can be asymptomatic for several weeks during which the individual is infective. Symptoms of gonorrhoea are fever with burning urination and penile discharge in males. Females present with vaginal irritation, pain, vaginal discharge, pain during sexual intercourse and lower abdominal pain. Untreated gonorrhoea can cause systemic symptoms including affliction of the joints and heart valves. Gonorrhoea needs treatment with appropriate antibiotics, which need to be determined by testing. The bacterium can be resistant to several antibiotics and longer periods of treatment with higher dosages of antibiotics may be needed. Individuals remain infective during the period of treatment and their current as well as past sexual partners will also require treatment.

Wife loves chatting with her ex Hubby's sisters and she loves them very much, does it mean that she still thinks about her ex?

Well, most people think about their exes now and then, especially if they were married once upon a time. Don't worry though - just because she loves her ex's sisters doesn't mean that she's still in love with her ex.

What age is recommended to introduce solids to babies

Upto the age of 5-6 months, breastfeeding alone is sufficient to provide all nutrients required by the baby. It is also sufficient to take care of the water requirements of the baby, except in unusual situations. After about 5-6 months of age, the baby’s nutritional requirements increase beyond what breastfeeding can provide. At this age, the baby should be slowly introduced to soft food in addition to breast milk. Different cultures have varying foods with which to wean the baby. Over a period of time, the baby can be introduced to solid food and should eventually consume the same diet as adults. Breast milk can be continued in addition to solid food for as long as convenient for both mother and baby.

Does a condom have its advantage or is highly to cause a disease if your addicted of using it?

 
Condoms definitely have advantages. If used correctly at every act of sex intercourse, condoms can prevent transmission of Sexually Transmitted Infections by over 85%. These infections include Hepatitis B, Hepatitis C, HIV, Syphilis, Gonorrhoea, Chlamydial infections, Herpes simplex etc. Condoms are an excellent method of contraception with an effectiveness of over 85%, again if correctly used. There is no way you can be addicted to using condoms. If by addiction you mean that you use condoms at every act of sexual intercourse, it is an excellent addiction to have. Condoms do not cause any diseases.

My baby at 7 months is said to be on bridge position , should i worry, what should i do?

 
The position of the baby in the uterus at seven months of pregnancy does not matter. Babies move around in the uterus throughout pregnancy. The position of the baby can change from breech to head down by the time labour begins. Even if the baby is in breech position at the time of labour, vaginal delivery can still occur. It will require monitoring and assistance by a trained healthcare professional. At seven months of age, the position of the baby is not a cause of worry. You do not need to do anything about it.

Sleep Walking

I fell asleep on my bed but I woke up the next morning in another room

It sounds like you've been sleepwalking! Sleepwalking is often associated with sleep deprivation (not getting enough sleep), alcohol, or medications. Maintain a healthy sleep schedule, get exercise, review your medications, avoid alcohol, and you will be fine! Sleep-walking is usually not dangerous unless you trip and fall while asleep.

*Three Scientists Share Chemistry Nobel for Developing Lithium-Ion Batteries*

The 2019 Nobel Prize in Chemistry will be awarded to John D Goodenough, M. Stanley Whittingham and Akira Yoshino for the development of lithium-ion batteries, the Nobel Committee said on Wednesday.

Lithium-ion batteries have revolutionised our lives and are used in everything from mobile phones to laptops and electric vehicles. Through their work, this year’s Chemistry Laureates have laid the foundation of a wireless, fossil-fuel-free society, the Nobel Committee said in a statement.

At the age of 96, Prof Goodenough is the oldest person ever to win the award.

The laureates will share the prize money of nine million kronor (£738,000).

*James Peebles, Michel Mayor and Didier Queloz Get Nobel Prize for Physics*

The Nobel Prize for Physics has been awarded to James Peebles for theoretical discoveries in physical cosmology, and Michel Mayor and Didier Queloz for discovering an exoplanet orbiting a solar-type star.

This year’s Nobel Prize in Physics rewards new understanding of the universe’s structure and history, and the first discovery of a planet orbiting a solar-type star outside our solar system. The discoveries have forever changed our conceptions of the world, a statement from the Nobel Assembly at Sweden's Royal Academy of Sciences said.

James Peebles took on the cosmos, with its billions of galaxies and galaxy clusters. His theoretical framework, developed over two decades, is the foundation of our modern understanding of the universe’s history, from the Big Bang to the present day.

The discovery by 2019 Nobel Prize laureates Michel Mayor and Didier Queloz started a revolution in astronomy and over 4,000 exoplanets have since been found in the Milky Way. Strange new worlds are still being discovered, with an incredible wealth of sizes, forms and orbits, the statement said.

NIGERIAN DOCTOR KILLS PATIENT OUT OF FRUSTRATION OVER HIS FAILURE TO RESPOND TO TREATMENT

A Nigerian doctor based in Abeokuta, Ogun State, Doctor Peter Ojo has been fingered in the killing of a patient under his care.

It happened that Dr. Peter had been attending to a particular sick patient for over a week.

Dr Peter is a graduate of one of the first generation universities in Nigeria and was the best graduating student in his set.

He is into private practice and is renowned for hard work and success in his work. He however had a 16 week-old patient who is said to be having a nasal discharge and passing a reddish stool for some days. He had given several medications but with no response.

Out of annoyance he took the life of the patient this morning. Everybody was surprised at his action. However, a reliable source revealed it to the press that the doctor's action was due to some "PRESSURE".

Dr Peter is a Veterinary Doctor and his patient was a 16 weeks old Broiler who was not responding to treatment. So he slaughtered the chicken and used it to make pepper soup for the weekend.

*Have a fulfilling week ahead*🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀

Is it ok to let your boyfriend break your virginity on his birthday because you want to make him happy?

Sure, as long as you're not doing it just for him, but also for yourself. Just be aware that you're really raising the bar for his birthday present next year!

Toothless Recovery

I have removed my tooth what should I eat for quick recovery?

Stick to soft bland foods for about a week. Avoid anything that is too crunchy, chewy, hot, spicy, or acidic (very sour). Warm soup, mashed vegetables, porridge, yogurt, bananas, and fish are all excellent choices!

Can one become an entrepreneur with a marketing degree?

You can become an entrepreneur with any degree as long as you have a great business idea or product, and you're good at building the business. Some famous entrepreneurs do not have any degrees at all. If you have a great business idea and know how to market it, you should team up with someone who can actually implement the idea or build a product.

*Nobel Prize in Medicine Awarded to Hypoxia Researchers*

Three scientists have shared this year’s Nobel prize in physiology or medicine for discovering how cells respond to varying oxygen levels in the body, one of the most essential adaptive processes for life.

William Kaelin Jr at Harvard University; Sir Peter Ratcliffe at Oxford University and the Francis Crick Institute in London; and Gregg Semenza at Johns Hopkins University won for “how cells sense and adapt to oxygen availability,” the Nobel committee said.

Beyond describing a fundamental physiological process that helps humans to thrive in some of the highest regions on Earth, the mechanism has given researchers new insights into treatments for anaemia, cancer and other diseases.

The Untalkative Man

As a quiet person, is it advisable that I marry a quiet girl or one who talks a lot?

It depends. Are you the kind of person who doesn't enjoy talking himself, but like being around people and enjoys listening to others talk? If so, you should marry someone who is talkative. If you are comfortable with long stretches of silence, and often feel bothered by chatter, marry a quiet girl.

I'm fat and my boy friend is slim and l don't feel comfortable with it

You can either slim down yourself or fatten up your boyfriend. Or, you could choose to be comfortable with your weight and his - if he is attracted to you the way you are, and you're attracted to him the way he is, nothing needs to change except your insecurity.

Spendthrift Cousin

I live with my first cousin. She found herself a boyfriend and I feel like the boy is using her. She spends a lot of money on him and then begs her dad for more while feigning illness. I feel like I should tell her to stop but then I feel like I should let her figure this out by her own...Should I or should I not talk her out of it?

Giving unsolicited advice usually isn't a good idea! Your cousin will simply be annoyed at you instead of realizing her mistake. Unless you are close to her dad (who is being cheated out of his money), stay out of it until she starts having her own doubts and comes to you for advice. If you do give advice, stay affirmative (i.e. say you deserve better than him, instead of you're silly for letting him use you).

I love you

A boy asked me to send him a voice note of me saying I love you to him, should I do it?

Not unless you actually love him! If you love him, go ahead.

Can exostosis melt?

An exostosis is an outgrowth of bone. It occurs usually due to constant irritation of the bone. There are conditions where multiple exostoses may occur as a hereditary condition. Exostoses normally cause no symptoms except for mild to moderate pain occasionally. It is usually noticed as a painless bump. In such cases, they require no treatment. Some exostoses may grow in size, or may be in a sensitive area causing pain. These may require surgical removal. However, chances of recurrence after surgery are high. Exostoses do not “melt”.

My husband comes home late almost every day what should I do... This is emotionally destroying me

First ask him why he is coming home late every day. Perhaps lately he has more work than usual. If he is hanging out with friends or spending time on outside interests, then you should tell him how this is affecting you. Work out a schedule that works for both of you. Perhaps he can promise to come home on time on certain days of the week, and later on others. If you know that he is going to be late on certain days, you can plan your day accordingly instead of stressing about when he'll be home!

I have one testicle I'm afraid girls are going to laugh at me when I get naked

If you dated a girl, and when she took off her clothes, one breast was larger than the other, would you burst out laughing? Probably not, right? Don't worry, girls won't laugh at you for having only one testicle - in fact, it might take a while before they notice at all. Frankly, testicles are not the most flattering part of a man's body, and most women won't take a good look unless they're right in their face.

Truth or Dare

I played a game of truth or dare and a person asked me to kiss him!

If you're uncomfortable, you can just say no. You can also try to treat it as a joke - laugh and say "Are you kidding!?" or "No way!" and hopefully, the person will rescind the dare. If you want to go through with the dare, keep in mind that you don't have to kiss anyone on the lips - a peck on the cheek or forehead will do.

Otitis Media

 
Otitis media is a condition where there is inflammation in the middle ear. The middle ear is that part of the ear beyond the ear drum which contains three tiny bones that help in hearing. This condition most commonly occurs due to infection in the middle ear. Otitis media can cause collection of fluid or pus in the middle ear cavity. This can cause loss of hearing. Continued accumulation of fluid or pus can increase the pressure in the middle ear cavity and can even cause perforation of the ear drum. Otitis media will require specialised treatment by an ENT specialist. You may require prolonged antibiotics and continued follow up, especially if perforation of the ear drum has occurred.

Pterygium in my two eyes️

 
A pterygium in the eye is a localised growth of the conjunctiva. It is not cancerous. Usually, it needs no treatment. It will only need treatment if it grows too large, or if it grows onto the cornea. If a pterygium grows onto the cornea, it can cause problems in vision due to distortion of the cornea. In extreme cases, pterygiums have been known to grow over the pupil thus severe impacting vision. Early pterygium can be controlled using anti-inflammatory eye drops. However,they should _only be used under medical supervision_. In the later stages, pterygium may require removal by surgery.

Can getting a tattoo harm ur health or cause any disease?️

 
Most people suffer no harm from getting a tattoo. Some individuals are allergic to tattoo ink and can suffer a reaction to it. In rare cases, the allergic reaction can be quite severe as to cause disfigurement of the skin. Some individuals may also suffer from granuloma or keloid formation after a tattoo. 
Tattoo needles can spread infections if they are not sterilised properly before use. It is ideal that a new, sterilised needle is used for each person getting a tattoo. Needles that are not sterile can spread infections like HIV, Hepatitis B and Hepatitis C. There are several other infections that can be spread by the use of unsterile needles, but these are the most dangerous. Skin infections like Staph aureus or fungal infections may also be spread.

Whats the purpose for taking folic acid by pregnant woman

 
The foetus grows very rapidly, especially in the early months of pregnancy. This rapids growth requires large amounts of essential nutrients, vitamins and minerals. One of these is folic acid. Folic acid is highly essential for normal development of various organ systems of the foetus, especially the brain and nervous system. Deficiency of folic acid can lead to underdevelopment of the foetal organs.

Folic acid, along with iron, is also essential for the mother to produce the increased number of red blood cells in her blood. This increased production is required to maintain oxygen delivery to the foetus.

Folic acid and iron are given to the mother in order to prevent deficiency of these substances and to thereby protect the foetus.

I keep Suffering from mouth ulcer Almost every month how can I prevent it, its just really painful

 
You may be suffering from a conditions called Aphthous ulcers. The cause of aphthous ulcers is not clearly known. It is known that there is a genetic basis for this. Stress can trigger the formation of these ulcers. Some individuals may suffer from aphthous ulceration due to an allergic reaction. This reaction may be to a new toothpaste, mouthwash or a food item. Vitamin B12, folate or iron deficiency is also known to cause aphthous ulceration. There are some major systemic disorders that can present with aphthous ulceration. Supplements of vitamin B12, folate and iron may relieve your problem. Try to figure out if there is any stressful event, foodstuff, or a certain toothpaste or mouthwash that triggers off the ulceration. Avoiding these can relieve your problem. If none of these work, you should consult your doctor for a more detailed workup to find out if there is any other cause for your ulcers. In the meantime, you should avoid spicy food during your attacks. Use of a pain relieving gel (commonly available as mouth ulcer gels) can temporarily relieve the pain you experience while eating.

Wisdom Teeth

 
Wisdom teeth usually erupt in the later teenage years. By this time, the jaw bones are fully grown to their adult size. In many individuals. there is insufficient space for the wisdom teeth to erupt properly. This can cause the tooth to become impacted or to press upon the tooth in front of it, causing pain. Impacted wisdom teeth may need to be extracted to prevent complications. You must consult a dentist who will be able to evaluate if the wisdom tooth needs to be extracted.

What are frost bites?

 
Frost bite is death of tissue caused by exposure to cold. Upon exposure to cold, the initial reaction of the body is to increase blood flow to that area in order to keep it warm. Upon prolonged exposure to cold, the body tries to conserve heat for the vital organs by decreasing blood flow to the hands and legs. This can cause death of the tissue and is known as frost bite. In the initial stages, frost bite can be reversed by gradual warming of the affected parts. The body may then be able to revive or replace the dead tissue. In the more severe stages of frost bite, the tissue cannot be saved and amputation of the fingers, toes or even the arm or leg may be required to save the life of the patient.

A person with undetected viral load infect a negative person

 
Undetectable viral load means that the amount of virus in the blood is lower than the detection limit of the test. These days, tests can detect very low viral loads. Undetectable viral load _does not_ mean that the individual is HIV negative. Several studies have shown that individuals who are taking their Anti Retroviral drugs regularly, have an undetectable viral load and do not have any other sexually transmitted disease are essentially non-infective. However, it is good practice to use condoms at every act of sexual intercourse even if you have an undetectable viral load.

Can HIV be transmitted through baber shops

Razors are used for shaving in barber shops. Even if there are no evident cuts during shaving, there are always micro abrasions on the shaved skin. These abrasions or frank cuts on the skin can deposit blood and tissue fluid on the razor. If this blood contains HIV and the same razor is used on another person, HIV can be transmitted to that person. One should always insist on the use of a new razor blade for shaving in a barber shop. It is also preferable that the handle of the razor blade is disinfected before use.

HIV be passed through having sex with a woman on her periods

HIV is present in high concentrations in blood, semen, and vaginal secretions. HIV can be transmitted through unprotected sexual intercourse with an infected person. There are several factors which affect the transmission of HIV including viral load, presence of injuries on the genitalia, presence of other sexually transmitted infections, presence of ulcers or sores on the genitalia etc. To answer your specific question, HIV _can definitely_ be transmitted if you have unprotected sexual intercourse with a HIV positive woman during her “periods”. Whether it is transmitted or not is subject to the factors that I have described earlier.

What does hardened nipples on a girl mean?

A woman's nipples typically harden in response to touch, cold air (sort of like goosebumps), and also when she's turned on. Allergies, ovulation, perimenopause, menopause, breast abscesses, are some less common causes for hardened nipples.

HIV be passed through having sex with a woman on her periods

HIV is present in high concentrations in blood, semen, and vaginal secretions. HIV can be transmitted through unprotected sexual intercourse with an infected person. There are several factors which affect the transmission of HIV including viral load, presence of injuries on the genitalia, presence of other sexually transmitted infections, presence of ulcers or sores on the genitalia etc. To answer your specific question, HIV _can definitely_ be transmitted if you have unprotected sexual intercourse with a HIV positive woman during her “periods”. Whether it is transmitted or not is subject to the factors that I have described earlier.

What can happen if you miss taking throxine tablets for a month

 
Thyroxine is a hormone secreted by the thyroid gland. The hormone controls several vital functions of the body. Deficiency of this hormone causes hypothyroidism. This can manifest in several ways. You can feel lethargic, sleepy, put on weight, develop rough skin, swelling of the legs, enlargement of the thyroid gland, and develop a slowing down of several body functions. The hormone is available in tablet form which has to be taken regularly. If you omit to take your dosage for a prolonged period, you will develop features of hypothyroidism as described above. These features will develop slowly but surely. Over a period of time, this can lead to severe disease.