My husband comes home late almost every day what should I do... This is emotionally destroying me

First ask him why he is coming home late every day. Perhaps lately he has more work than usual. If he is hanging out with friends or spending time on outside interests, then you should tell him how this is affecting you. Work out a schedule that works for both of you. Perhaps he can promise to come home on time on certain days of the week, and later on others. If you know that he is going to be late on certain days, you can plan your day accordingly instead of stressing about when he'll be home!