Sometimes when two people have been dating or married for so long, the communication can be flat. You've already known each other, so what is there to talk about? The chats become short and few, the phone calls become short and cold, when you are both at home everyone is busy doing their own thing, you both struggle in a conversation, when driving in the car both are silent, you two have ended up talking mostly about the things that need to be done at home, you can feel that the communication is dry.
How does one restore that funny, warm, alive, quality communication to what it used to be before?
1. "Stop panicking"
When you panic that the communication has changed, you begin to force conversations; making things awkward and complicating things further
2. "Both of you grow intellectually"
When you don't grow as much, you stagnate. Or one of you grows more than the other, there can be a disconnect. But when you acquire more knowledge, research more, go to school to get that Degree, Masters or PhD, or even when you can't go to school you read more and become more exposed to new content; you will have more to talk about
3. "Engage your family and friends more"
Often a man and a woman spend time alone and isolating themselves. But stop making yourselves an island. Meet up with family, do stuff with friends, especially as a couple; that way you will have new experiences and memories. Conversations often revolve around two things: memories and what someone knows
4. "Kiss more"
You cannot kiss and stay quiet. Kissing excites the senses. If you don't have much to say, just kiss each other, get lost in those long intimate kisses. Soon, you both will find yourselves talking
5. "Watch movies together"
Movies are a great way to connect
6. "Go out on dates more"
Sadly, many couples, especially married couples stop going out on dates. Staying at home every time can get monotonous, nothing new to experience
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