Say NO to a relationship with toxic features

Singles, be sensitive about relationships with toxic features. It is not healthy to consider such for marital decision.

It has harmful potentials and is dangerous for you now and even in the future. Life can be lost in the process, dreams could be aborted and hopes could be dashed if you are indifferent about it. It is not a relationship you ever wish anyone not to talk of your precious life.

Some of the features may include but not be limited to the following:

(1) He or she does not fear God and does not fear anybody or any authority. Righteousness is an alien to the person, no salvation experience and life is full of sinfulness without any apology. His or her way does not please the Lord. Anybody who does not love God and submit to His authority will not be able to love you genuinely. He or she makes you to compromise your stand in God, each moment together takes you far from God and you struggle spiritually always to catch up again. Do you still want to go ahead? It is dangerous for you oooo!

(2) He or she is inhuman. Behaviours and attitudes are unimaginable. No human feeling or iota of sensitivity to another person's emotions or needs in all areas. He or she enjoys inflicting pains on you and does not see anything wrong in it. You have become emotional reck because of the relationship. You can't get along and survive with a damaged state of mind in the journey of marriage o.

(3) The person does not value you and it is obvious you are the one chasing him or her for a relationship. There is no commitment, no love, no signs of seriousness at any given time. You keep hearing names of other options who are more valuable and appreciated than you from him or her. He or she has options in which you are among. I mean, among the multitude of his fake love network here and there, why would you force yourself on someone you are not his or her priority at any given time and does not even value you.