I took time to go through some of the groups I'm following on Facebook today and I couldn't help but ponder.
The major killer of a great marriage even before it starts is "THE WRONG MINDSET"
How can you think "all men are the same" and you want to enjoy marriage? Now, if I may ask, how many men have you had relationship with to draw that conclusion?
"It is in the nature of men to cheat" Are you kidding me, says who? Why conclude because you know someone cheating on his wife or probably your husband is cheating on you?
"All ladies want is money" that is your mindset and a very wrong assumption.
"All ladies are the same and they just can't change" that is absolutely wrong, Sir
All these are individual assumptions and a conditioned mindset which have destroyed a lot of marriages and still keeping some single.
It will be good for you if you can do a reprogramming, change the way you think and stop assuming. Assumption kills relationship and if you continue to assume you will continue to lose valuable relationships.
Change your mindset because you are a product of your thoughts and these thoughts come from the image you've created for yourself(assumptions)
Until you change your mindset you will never think right and take responsibility but keep passing blames.
© Bisi Lanre - Ojolo
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