Always ask yourself, "What is the outcome I want for my marriage? Is it to to save it and grow my marriage or to end it?"
1. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you holding on to the friend that is causing a rift between you and your spouse?
3. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you mistreating and disrespecting your in-laws?
4. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you telling anyone who cares to hear how bad your spouse is?
5. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you not forgiving your spouse and are stuck on his/her past faults?
6. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you insulting or physically harming your spouse?
7. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you not listening to what your spouse is saying to make your spouse feel accommodated?
8. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you threatening your spouse with divorce?
9. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you using sex as a weapon?
10. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you protecting your phone more than your marriage?
11. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you still holding on to the affair that is threatening your marriage?
12. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you refusing to be accountable and refusing to participate in a process where you and your spouse can talk things out or even go through counselling instead of hiding issues?
13. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you letting your pride take over?
14. If your outcome is to save and grow your marriage, why are you using your children to fight your spouse?
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