I Love you! You love me!
Is a common saying. Everyone want to be in Love but not everyone
is ready to pay the price. To know whether it is true love or not. I will
mention few ways to test true love.
1. Truth test
True love is not afraid to tell the whole truth, but lust and
infatuation have a lot to hide / keep. So, if you are still hiding behind one
“finger”, keeping the truth from your partner because you don't want him or her
to know the truth , who will later know? Don't be a deceiver. You're not a true
lover. True love doesn't lie neither keep any records truth.
Be truthful and real. If he or she will stay, why not, she will.
It is better you tell him or her than finding out later.
2. Time test
Real love do survive test of time because it is deeply rooted
before it started. It is rooted in the other person’s total personality and not
just the physical appearance because the more they know of each other, the more
the love grows.
Check it, if that guy that used to come almost everyday now
finds it difficult to see you for a whole month, fail to call or never pick
your calls, it only shows that he is not in love and he has seen it all, it is
time to go. Not a real love.
3. Goal test
True love is ready to give, even if it hurts, it is unselfish,
committed, you want to do all you can to make the other party happy as far as
he want in the fear of God, that is true love. If all what your partner want is
to collect from you or have sex with you, he or she is not in love.
If your desire is to get somebody to kiss, caress, fondle and
sleep with that's infatuation not true love. His/ her goal must not be sex.
4. Maturity test
Teenagers are not ripe enough for love affairs or anything call
love, they can only be infatuated which they call love. If you are still a
teenager you are deceiving yourself, if the person you are going into
relationship with is a teenager you are both in Infatuated not love .
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