Thursday 20 June 2024

WAYS TO TEST TRUE LOVE

 


I Love you! You love me!

Is a common saying. Everyone want to be in Love but not everyone is ready to pay the price. To know whether it is true love or not. I will mention few ways to test true love.

1. Truth test

True love is not afraid to tell the whole truth, but lust and infatuation have a lot to hide / keep. So, if you are still hiding behind one “finger”, keeping the truth from your partner because you don't want him or her to know the truth , who will later know? Don't be a deceiver. You're not a true lover. True love doesn't lie neither keep any records truth.

Be truthful and real. If he or she will stay, why not, she will. It is better you tell him or her than finding out later.

2. Time test

Real love do survive test of time because it is deeply rooted before it started. It is rooted in the other person’s total personality and not just the physical appearance because the more they know of each other, the more the love grows.

Check it, if that guy that used to come almost everyday now finds it difficult to see you for a whole month, fail to call or never pick your calls, it only shows that he is not in love and he has seen it all, it is time to go. Not a real love.

3. Goal test

True love is ready to give, even if it hurts, it is unselfish, committed, you want to do all you can to make the other party happy as far as he want in the fear of God, that is true love. If all what your partner want is to collect from you or have sex with you, he or she is not in love.

If your desire is to get somebody to kiss, caress, fondle and sleep with that's infatuation not true love. His/ her goal must not be sex.

4. Maturity test

Teenagers are not ripe enough for love affairs or anything call love, they can only be infatuated which they call love. If you are still a teenager you are deceiving yourself, if the person you are going into relationship with is a teenager you are both in Infatuated not love .

 

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