CAN I ASSIST MY FIANCE FINANCIALLY?
Over and over again, ladies keep asking me if it is okay to help their partners with money, some are already heavily involved financially while some are one leg in, one leg out.
The fear of these ladies is the guy eventually becoming complacent, depending on them for survival after marriage, expecting them to pay all the bills and not doing anything to better their finances.
My advise for you is, what you cannot finish, don't bother to start, if you are not ready to spoon feed him for life and clear all your bills in marriage, don't start practicing now in courtship.
A guy who is so financially irresponsible, he can't eat or pay bills till he borrows from you day in, day out and does nothing to improve his finance is a disaster going somewhere to happen.
If you are as irresponsible as he is, he will have no money to borrow!
Borrow yourself sense sweet lady!
Let your man grow up and be financially responsible so you can have peace of mimd in marriage. A liability in courtship won't turn to an asset in marriage.
He should dust his certificaties and go look for job or find something doing! He should budget his income and learn to live within his means. If he spends more than he earns to the point you have to keep borrowing him money,either he is not earning enough or he is living above his income!
A man will become what you train him to be. If you train him to depend on you for survival on courtship, he will continue in marriage. Train him to be financially responsible.
A man who knows how to create money without becoming a financial burden on his woman is a great husband material to watch out for!
Marriage is a place of support not a burden. You are to help each other achieve your dreams not suck each other's dreams dry.
Both of you should be financially responsible.
Both of you should live within your budget.
Both of you should contribute to the success of your marriage.
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