1. BE BEST FRIENDS
Marry your best friend. And when you are married, deliberately stay best friends. There is peace in close friendship
2. HAVE A LOT OF SEX
Making love releases the tension and brings about intimacy. With intimacy comes peace
3. BE RIGHT WITH GOD
The more your relationship with God as individuals and as a couple grows; the more peaceful you will be
4. MAKE GOOD FINANCIAL DECISIONS
Don't go into debt, live within your means, don't misuse money or cause your spouse to feel financially overburdened. Even when you are in financial problems, come up with a plan. Financial strain can bring stress
5. START EACH DAY RIGHT
Start with a blessing, a prayer, a kiss, warm words; it sets the tone of the day
6. HELP EACH OTHER OUT
Do everything as a team. Share responsibilities. It lifts the burden bringing peace
7. RESOLVE ISSUES QUICKLY
Don't dwell on issues. Apologize when you wrong, forgive when wronged. Making up maintains peace
8. CONTROL YOUR TEMPER
Learn to keep calm when angry. Pray
9. PLAY WORSHIP MUSIC
Let worship surround the home. Where God is worshipped there is peace
10. KISS MORE, TOUCH MORE
Cuddling makes you less moody and grumpy
11. DO NOT HAVE AN AFFAIR
This is the quickest way to destroy peace
12. DON'T DO ANYTHING SUSPICIOUS
Refrain from doing anything that might make your spouse doubt you or be suspicious of you. You may not be doing wrong but make sure your spouse gets no impression that you are
13. LAUGH
Watch comedies, laugh, play games, enjoy a sport, have constructive debates. Be fun
14. COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER
Tell your spouse how good he/she is or looks. When people are made to feel good about themselves, they are peaceful
15. SAY "I LOVE YOU" TO EACH OTHER
These thee words calm the heart, they come with peace
© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde
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