WHAT A BROTHER OR A SISTER SHOULD KNOW

I think it's not awesome truth to says where you meet your partner can or determines ones possibility of getting it right.

Location doesn't determine success in marriage, But who your partner is does, That Jesus is seen or met in the misdt of the prostitute doesn't make Him one of the misrables.

The awesome truth is, not to be equally yoked with the UNBELIEVER.

Unbeliever here in the Hebrew is not only those that are outside the church only but include those that are negative to one another; incompatibles in spirit, soul and body ( compatible in faith, in believe, goal and in practices),

A cow can be yoked with a ram they are both animal looks alike but not compatible therefore goals cannot be achieved and one will suffer for the other,

That Rebecca is met beside a well doesn't make her a drinker Or that Isaac met her in the field doesn't make her a players or have any attribute the has to do with the location but who Rebecca and Isaac are determines.

According to the record from Bishop Benson Idahosha's secretary in her book "Fire In His Bone" bishop met his wife at "mammi waters' worshiper house" as that is his wife's parents home.

But If an elephant married an ant or rat hell on earth or naming son/daughter the name Endurance is gauranteed,

The common ground I see in successful marriage *is that: the man SEES and then God AUTHENTICATES.*

Adam sees, Isaac sees,.. (though God planned it but hide to Adam until he sees No authentication though predestined but wife becomes favor after seen) ...Whosoever finds a wife: finds favor.

Sees here is deeper than just seeing with biological eyes; it entails spiritually (sees in the spirit which is not only through dream or vision only), physically (it's good your partner appeals to you) and biologically sees (like our brother has already said it's good you know your compatibility in place of our biology i,e the blood group matters to know if at all there will reason to change blood group which possible in Christ though not everyone)

So When you're compatible to some degree because it's impossible to sees fully compatible partner before marriage however they can grow into fult compatibility.

When you're compatible to some degree then that's your partner,

However, it's good to have your partner from your friends, people do kick against this even if the Lord (the holy spirit leads them to they rebuke and silent him), It is not like that, your partner can come from anywhere but you must SEES, The very first time you sees you know. However, this is not to grow lust into love or partnership. Which is another err many dash into.

May will never miss it Jesus name!