Don't wait till you have gone too far in a Relationship before you start seeking to know pertinent issues and things about your partner
"she will say it is too early"
"He will say I am desperate"
Any body who says these things when you begin asking pertinent questions early in a relationship has skeletons in their cupboard.
2 months of Relationship is long enough for you to ask your partner to define what submission means to him or her..
It is a sign of missed priorities and wrongly done courtship for you to begin to discover irreconcilable differences between you and your partner 2 weeks to your traditional wedding, a month to your white wedding that you could have found our early enough simply because you didn't ask questions and watch well.
What does submission mean to him?
What are his/her expectations of you after marriage?
Their view on cheating?
Will you stop wearing trousers?
Will you stop applying makeup?
Will she accept to stop dressing as she is doing now?
What happens if there's prolonged delay in child birth?
Will he demand for your salary tomorrow?
Joint account or seperate accounts?
House Chores?
Who pays the bills?
Their genotype?
How many kids?
Family planning?
Oral sex/Anal sex?
Ask them these questions with style and indirectly..
Find a way to get them to reveal their opinions on these issues without them even realizing it....
Ask them questions in unguarded moments.
Bring up real live situations and stylishly ask for their opinions and judgement, then sit back and listen to what you are about to marry.
If possible, you can even find out these things before you enter the Relationship.
By Musa Gift
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