In this part of the world, most ladies are looking for men who will treat them like queens. That's great!
However, my concern is that most of such ladies are not ready to treat their men also like kings.
Queens are only married to kings!
In the past, I have told you how I give my wife royal treatment in our marriage. She's indeed the queen in my world.
But what most of the ladies don't know about my wife is that she treats me also like the king that I am.
She respects me!
She honours me!
She submits to me!
She cherishes me!
She loves me like kilode!
I mean the whole to her!
My wife and I came into marriage with the mindset that it's about US. In our marriage, my wife has never felt more deserving and entitled to things than me. She wants the best for me just as I want the best for her.
Ladies who feel more deserving and entitled to things than their husbands in marriage are opportunists. Period!
Marriage becomes sweet when the two spouses "expend" themselves towards each other. But marriage becomes unhealthy and one-sided when one spouse thinks that marriage is about them alone.
During my last birthday, my wife gave me superb gifts. When I reflected on the meaning and monetary value of the gifts, what she gave me was almost twice the value of what I gave her during her own birthday. "Ladies, shay una dey see?"
Over the years, I have shared with you the secrets of my marriage. In my marriage, we are not perfect. But one thing we have succeeded to achieve is simplicity. We are down to earth. All protocols duly removed.
It takes the right mindset to have a great marriage!
I hope you have heard me very clearly!
By Coach Joshua
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