5 DIFFERENCES BETWEEN BOYFRIEND MATERIAL AND HUSBAND MATERIAL

1) BOYFRIEND MATERIAL WANTS TO SEE YOUR PANT

HUSBAND MATERIAL WANTS TO SEE YOUR PARENTS

Mention Marriage and Boyfriend Material begins to shake, he'll say you're rushing him.

Boyfriend Material are time wasters and heart breakers, they only come for your body, to see your Nakedness, not for Marriage, they take off once they can take off your clothes, or if they see that you won't allow them.

Husband Material puts Marriage on the table and waits, they want to meet/know your family, Pastor, Mentors. Etc. .

Husband Material wants to see your Parents before seeing your Pant.

Husband Material wants to become a Husband before becoming a Father.

2) BOYFRIEND MATERIAL IS A BOY

HUSBAND MATERIAL IS A MAN.

The difference here isn't age, but MATURITY..

Boyfriend has no Plan, no Vision for his life, he can't take care of himself (cooking and washing), he only wants to play Bet9ja, Party, Drink and have Sex.

Husband Material has a vision, he knows what he wants from life, he plans with you and has his life under control.

A Husband Material Leads You.

You Lead a Boyfriend Material. (spiritually and otherwise)

Marry a BOYfriend Material and you become a MOTHER.

Marry a Husband Material and you become a WIFE.

3) BOYFRIEND MATERIAL IS LOOSE

HUSBAND MATERIAL IS LOYAL

A boyfriend material cannot hold himself once he sees anything in skirt, even your female friends are not safe around him.

You catch him today and forgive him, tomorrow he's at it again

Anytime you hear "Man must cheat", na dem.

When a Woman is washing her husband's clothes, and starts seeing used condoms, several hotel receipts, she married a boyfriend material.

A Husband Material believes in One Man one Woman.

4) BOYFRIEND MATERIAL CHASE GIRLS

HUSBAND MATERIAL WANTS A WOMAN

A Boyfriend Material is threatened by a Mature Woman who knows what she wants and has a brain..

Boyfriend material want a person they can confuse with nonsense lies, deceive, intimidate, cheat on, and treat anyhow and she'll follow blindly.

Boyfriend Material takes a good Wife Material for granted. He naively prefers a Girlfriend Material.

A Husband Material on the other hand wants a Matured, independent, vision driven Woman who he can depend on and she too can depend on him, a Wife, not a GIRLfriend.

5) BOYFRIEND MATERIAL MOVE WITH FELLOW BOYFRIEND MATERIALS

You can tell where a Guy falls into by looking at his friends.

Lions move in Prides

Goats move in Herds.

Check his friends, can you see maturity and responsibility in them? Or you see promiscuity and thuggery?

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Aunty, shine your eye.

If you marry a BOYFRIEND material because of money, and six packs, you'll never really experience what being a WIFE means.

By Musa Gift