Comparing your wife and your side chick

It is easy for you to see FAULTS in your Wife, and see that Lady at the office as PERFECT

You live with your wife, you wake up beside her everyday, you see her without makeup, you see her when she's tired, when she's in need of a bath, you see her without her wig and mascara.

You don't live with that lady you are now lusting after and wishing was your wife, you don't wake up beside her.

You see her when she's already applied make up, you see her only when she's had a bath, with her wig, brazilian weavon and mascara.

Your wife lives with you, it's easy to see why you feel like you need a breath of fresh air, you know her every flaws, her weaknesses, you see her CONTENT daily, while all you see about that lady is her CONTAINER

Your wife cannot PRETEND for you, she has no reason to, that lady has no reason to be REAL to you, she will only be COURTEOUS and KIND to you, but don't let that fool you.

That lady you are comparing with your wife has her own imperfections and flaws, she has attitude issues too, she gets angry too, but you won't see all this about her.

Don't begin to wish you were married to that younger lady, she's what? 22? 25?

Your wife is 35? 40+?

She's been to the labor room, her vagina can't be the same as before, maybe she's had a CS or two, let's not forget all the worship sessions and night vigils you conducted down there, shouting "give it to me, I paid for it"?,

Those stretch marks you detest are her scars from the pregnancies that made you a father.

You are complaining, your wife's breasts have sagged, but who pressed them? Was it us? Was it not you?

You are now eyeing a young lady that her chest Is firm, you forget that if she were subjected to the same conditions your wife has been through in your hands every night in the bedroom for 10 years, she'd look like your wife?

Respect that Woman who has stood by your side.

She has struggled with you,

She has taken in and given you kids,

She has loved you, emotionally and sexually,

She has hustled with you.

She's the wife of your YOUTH.

Love her with all her flaws

Love her through the changes you see.

Love those stretch marks.

Kiss that not so flat tommy

She's the wife of your YOUTH.

Malachi 2:15 "Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth."