Wednesday 10 November 2021

*EMOTIONAL ESSENCE OF SEX IN MARRIAGE*


BY PSYCHIATRIST DOCTOR KADIRI
Kadiri, popularly called ‘celebrity shrink’, urged women dealing with depression to frequently indulge in Marital sex, while boosting their self-esteem.
She also advised women who are over-weight to also involve in active sex, saying doing so will boost endorphins which are happy hormones.
“The happy hormones will make them lose some calories as well as sleep better.
”Orgasms trigger the release of endorphins which are happy hormones secreted by the brain that act as effective painkillers,’’ she said.
She added that sex was not only beneficial to the men, but especially to women because it was capable of freeing them from stress.
Regular Sex (For married ones only). A lot of people don't associate sex with God - they associate it with Satan and darkness, as if sex is not holy. Sex is holy within marriage, and there is no prescribed style.
Not discussing sex in a Marriage will eventually leads to divorce!! I have counseled women who've complained: my husband treats me as if I were his sister. There was one who told me: I am tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a salary. I told her she was lucky to be getting sex fortnightly, since some wives only get it on big days, like elections day, Christmas and birthdays.
Many husbands exposes their wives to temptations of seeking sexual pleasures in Avenues . Have you ever asked yourself what those women have that you don't?
Some Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband.
Today you find men indulge in porno to get their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties because their wives hide it from them.
Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman is free to parade nakedness and do some modeling to tempt her husband without saying.
Physical, Spiritual, Emotional and Sexual nakedness is highly necessary, if Marriage must maintain Stability (Gen 2:25). There are many married women who don't know what their husband's penises looks like. She only feels it when he enters her. They've never touched it, let alone seen it, because the husband switches off the lights before undressing. A penis is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it.
I blame couples for not making time for sex and complaining about being tired after a day's work. You find many couples who've been sexually starved for years behaving like tensed adult and extremely violent around opposite genders without good reasons. God created sex for procreation and also for emotional pleasure. You can't marry and not have a good time in bed.

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