THE ESSENCE OF COURTSHIP.

THE ESSENCE OF COURTSHIP.

Courtship is the period before marriage. A period whereby a man/woman ready to get married study, know and understand themselves.

The period to ask questions and get answers. The period to repeat unanswered questions and make sure you're satisfied with it. The period to know both families,their way of life, background, their culture, beliefs, likes and dislikes, dos and don'ts, everything knowable about both families.

The period where critical decisions are made, whether to move into marriage or not. The period for total and complete preparation. The period where you need to open every part of you, your physical/ spiritual eyes, physical/spiritual ears, physical/spiritual mind, your reasoning, thinking faculty and your mouth in discretion/wisdom.

The period where WISDOM is the principal thing, and profitable to direct. The period to close your legs as a lady. The period to PUSH(pray until something happens). 

This is not the period to show off, the period to tell your friends, families you have arrived but the period to APPLY wisdom in all your doings. 

This is NOT the period for pretence, but to be yourself and show the real you. When I say,the real you, I mean the real you. Let the man/woman you want to marry know you for who you are and not after marriage, you'll start showing your real colours.

This is the time to make things easier for yourselves, so that, both of you will know whether to go on with the marriage or stop there and remain good friends. This is the period to prepare for marriage, not wedding because wedding is just a day but MARRIAGE is for A LIFETIME.

Ladies,this is not the time to know all the hotels, fast food in the world and never a period to visit all your friends, unfriendly friends and even enemies, but the period to know your husband family and to be a better woman for your husband to be and your unborn children. This is not the time for RECKLESS SPENDING but the time to SAVE and PLAN. Not the time to party but to seek the face of God and find it, time to move closer to God.

May God bless us all and all our courtships.