1. Shouting at him in public or at home , If you want to correct your spouse, pull him aside, correct with love .
2. Failing to introduce your spouse in public. Always affirm your spouse's position in public, say "This is my husband".
3. Why allow him eat good food outside when you can learn how to prepare good meals for your spouse, don't depend on a particular food, learn other delicacies to spices up your dinning table.
4. Treating other people better than you treat your spouse. Your spouse is the special one deserving of your best.
5. Gossiping about your spouse to others. Preserve the dignity of your spouse.
6. Slapping or physically abusing your spouse. No matter how angry you are, do not harm.
7. Insulting your spouse. No matter how angry you are, always control your tongue.
8. Belittling a gift your spouse gave you. Never make your spouse feel you don't appreciate his/her efforts.
9. Flirting with others. This shows disrespect to your marriage.
10. Badmouthing your spouse to the child/children. Never project a negative image of dad to the child/children.
11. Treating your spouse like a slave. Love does not humiliate.
12. Talking badly about your spouse's body. You are responsible for making your spouse feel good about his/her body.
13. Not appreciating your spouse's contribution just because you do more because you have greater capacity. Love does not keep a score sheet.
14. Praising another above your spouse. Don't become too familiar with your spouse.
15. Comparing your spouse with your ex. There is a reason why that person is your ex and you're with your spouse.
16. Failing to see the progress your spouse is making and his/her success. If you will not celebrate your spouse, who will?
17. Sneering, banging doors or walking away when your spouse is talking to you. Never make your spouse feel looked down upon or not listened to.
18. Rudely hanging up on your spouse's phone call or deliberately ignoring your spouse when your spouse is calling. If you can't talk or not in the mood to talk or you want some time out, let your spouse know, don't be rude.
19. Mocking your spouse's education, upbringing or intelligence. Even when you know more, understand that we all are growing and know some things more and other things less.
20. Mocking your
spouse's sexual performance. Do not destroy the self-esteem of the person you depend on to give you pleasure. Teach him want you want.
21. Mocking your spouse's fears and judging them as petty. If something is a big deal to your spouse but not to you be sensitive and understanding.
*Above all Prayer is the key, before you speak or take any action go to the author of marriage (God ) and tell Him to take control of what you are about to say or do, He is always on time to direct your steps and doing.*
*I PRAY THAT OUR MARRIAGES WILL BE SWEETER BY EACH DAY AND ALL THE SINGLE LADIES WILL BE GLORIOUSLY MARRIED TO THEIR GOD ORDAINED SPOUSES AND ENJOY THEIR HOMES, WE WILL EAT THE FRUITS OF OUR LABOUR.*
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