Secret 1:
Everyone you marry has a weakness. No spouse is perfect, the one who comes in all shades of perfection is the one who is alive in your spouse, and that person is God. So if you focus on your spouse's weaknesses you will never get the best out of his or her strength.
See, the couples that last are the ones who magnify each others strength, rather than the weaknesses.
Secret 2:
Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future you are building together.
Secret 3:
Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Fight, Fight, Fight until the enemy steps out of the ring. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse through the ups and the downs.
Secret 4:
Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. Two marriage can look IDENTICAL, but can never be EQUAL. I hope you are hearing me? Never compare the love level from another marriage with yours. Learn to be patient, and keep sprinkling water where you want the green grasses to grow.
Secret 5:
To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
🔥Ignorance
🔥Prayerlessness
🔥Unforgiveness
🔥Third party influence
🔥Stinginess
🔥Stubbornness
🔥Lack of love
🔥Rudeness
🔥Laziness
🔥Jezebels
🔥Delilahs
🔥Disrespect
🔥 And Cheating.
To keep your marriage you have to be willing to fight DIRTY with prayer and hardwork. A happy marriage is not for couples who want to be CLEAN.
Secret 6:
There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work.
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