Dear Brother
2 THINGS YOU SHOULD AVOID SO YOU DON'T DAMAGE HER SELF ESTEEM.
Every Woman is full of greatness and potential.
How much of that potential sees the light of day depends on her self esteem and how motivated she is to go out and be/do her best.
AVOID the following if you want to see the best come out of your Fiance/Wife:
1) BODY SHAMING.
Don't mock her body for any reason. Don't.
When you mock, criticize her because of her shape, breast size, body size, skin color or her height, you make her loose confidence in her looks and in herself, and accept that she's ugly.
She becomes overly self conscious and ashamed when with people, and this affects her self esteem, her self confidence, and reduces her productivity.
2) ABUSE
You need to see some guys insulting the woman they claim to love,
How can you call a Woman who loves and cherishes you "good for nothing, stupid, dull, foolish, local, idiot, useless, failure"?
You may apologize later, but your words leave a mark on her soul,
She soon begins to BELIEVE your words, and she soon BECOMES it because she believes it.
Her self esteem drops, her hunger to make repeated attempts at success and greatness dies. And she may end up useless (just as you called her).
PHYSICAL ABUSE also affects a Woman's self esteem and confidence in herself.
Why hit a Woman who you should be protecting?
Each time you raise your hands to hurt her, she dies inside. She begins to feel sad, sorrowful, weak, helpless, defenseless and even suicidal.
These are ingredients that make a Woman into a Failure.. Don't be that Man
INSTEAD
1) PRAY FOR HER
Don't just pray with her, pray for her
As her Husband, lay your hands on her head and bless her daily, that she will be a great Woman.
As her Husband, Your mouth isn't just to suck breast. Pray for her..
2) ENCOURAGE HER
Whether she's succeeding or failing, encourage her.
Call her Hephzibah, the Lords delight.
Call her Zion, the City of the Great KING
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