Sunday 12 May 2024

"Embracing Self-Respect Over People-Pleasing"


Do not fall into the trap of people-pleasing.

Do you truly believe that by constantly trying to please others, they will genuinely love you? Unfortunately, they won't.
Genuine love and followership come from the heart, not from coerced emotions. Relationships built on people-pleasing will crumble at the slightest disruption.

Do not sacrifice your life to win people's love—it cannot be bought and will fade if you stop paying.

Stop seeking universal approval.

Don't fear disagreeing respectfully when something doesn't sit right with you.

Don't be afraid to voice your thoughts with civility—after all, you're only human.

Express your feelings without fear; emotions are fleeting.

Learn to set boundaries; it's crucial to know when to say yes or no to protect your emotional well-being.

Saying yes all the time won't earn you love.

Above all, prioritize your comfort and well-being; you can't give from an empty place.

Learn to act with integrity and let go of the need for constant validation.

You have a mind of your own—use it!

People will love you for who you are, not for what you do for them. True love stands the test of time.

Reflect on these lessons.


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