I watched a video of a wife and side chick fighting. The side chick is a street lady while the wife is kind of a calm person. The unpleasant thing is that the side chick calls some area boys and they nearly strip the wife naked after beating her. Thankfully, some women rallied around them to save the woman. The side chick was shouting “Did I force your husband or am I the one who toasted him?” The wife said the man didn’t pay their children’s school fees, and he is not responsible at home, but he spent money for the side chick and slept in the house he rented for her most of the time now which is so sad to hear. I was just thinking, what if the they injured the wife more than this? Does that mean the man will stop cheating?
Dear ladies, don’t go fight with another woman over a man. If he makes another woman feel like she stands a chance with him, he should be held responsible for his actions. You shouldn’t be fighting over someone who lacks discipline and respect for you, and let another lady who has nothing to lose injure you. Confront your man too, you have reasonable business with him.
You cannot keep a grown man because you love him, rather a grown man keeps himself because he loves and respects you. Nothing keeps a man who doesn't want to be kept. Stop fighting another woman over a cheater, you will end up belittling yourself because of a man who doesn't value your existence. If something bad happens to you while fighting another woman, he will continue living his life and continue cheating. You are the one who loses.
If another woman can get close to your man, your man is the problem and has the highest percentage of the blame. The fact that another woman feels so welcomed reflects on your man’s behavior behind your back because no woman can date or get close to your man if he doesn't allow it. A good and responsible man will place you above other women, he will respect your feelings and set boundaries.
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