1. Will enjoy mutually talking with them
2. Will be easy to talk to without feeling judged or looked down
3. Will have a unique sense of humor. Laughter warms things up
4. Will ask questions not to investigate or interrogate but to seek to understand
5. Will give eye contact when being spoken to. Paying attention
6. Will turn some conversations into prayer requests. Praying as a couple
7. Will keep their secrets and not look at them differently when dark secrets are shared
8. Will give them peace and be inviting to talk to
9. Will not say hurtful things and blame it on hot temper or alcohol
10. Will know when to shut up and listen and give a shoulder to lean on
11. Will also be vulnerable enough to open up
12. Will flirt but not turn every conversation into a sex subject
13. Will study their body language and tone to know what words cannot say
14. Will speak to them with respect privately and publicly
15. Will reply to their messages or return missed calls instead of ignoring them
16. Will also make an effort to initiate conversations rather than it being one sided
17. Will talk more than just chores, projects, money, children and responsibilities and get to talk heart to heart. A companion. A confidant
18. Will apologize when they say something wrong instead of brushing off the issue as if no hurt happened
© Dayan Masinde
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